http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ ElsaElsa Boards Topic: Are you depraved? Dark urges in sex and relationships en Sun, 21 Mar 2010 13:26:52 +0000 http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/are-you-depraved-dark-urges-in-sex-and-relationships#post-50641 Wed, 17 Mar 2010 06:11:24 +0000 nasa 50641@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>i like to be choked and dominated. mars in pisces, square saturn &amp; uranus. the saturn &amp; uranus squares to my mars would indicate i definitely wouldn't have &quot;normal&quot; sex, even in the sensual, slow sign of pisces</p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/are-you-depraved-dark-urges-in-sex-and-relationships#post-41351 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 19:52:29 +0000 Shannon 41351@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>I like the &quot;equal levels of fucked up&quot; and agree that it's pretty brilliant when it works like that.&nbsp; Yum. </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/are-you-depraved-dark-urges-in-sex-and-relationships#post-41344 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 19:21:48 +0000 Velvet 41344@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>I don't talk about my uh dark desires much except to a friend who happens to have sun and Mercury in the 8th, while I have a&nbsp;scorpio mercury/venus/uranus and sun conjunct pluto, nothing either of us say to the other is shocking and we can discuss just about anything which is liberating, constantly editing your conversations can be bannoying and tiring. </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/are-you-depraved-dark-urges-in-sex-and-relationships#post-41260 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 09:50:09 +0000 Monica 41260@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>hehehe&nbsp;SaDiablo <img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/icon_biggrin.gif" /></p> <p>I agree.&nbsp; As you said in previous posts, I agree that anything sexual is natural.&nbsp; (of course, this is between two (or more) consenting adults.) But, people get caught up in all these judgements without even stopping to think, &quot;Who the FUCK came up with these rules anyway?!?&quot;&nbsp; Anyway I think that most societal mores became established out of the desire of one group of people to control another... not because (insert deviant behavior here) is SO wrong/harmful/horrible.</p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/are-you-depraved-dark-urges-in-sex-and-relationships#post-41254 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 08:11:14 +0000 SaDiablo 41254@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>Monica, I think I love you!&nbsp;&nbsp;What you said about matching levels of fuck-up-ed-ness *snort* is absolutely brilliant!</p> <p>Personally, I've never felt that anything I enjoy is &quot;depraved&quot; (read: shocking / wrong) until I mention something casually and watch others recoil.&nbsp; Then I feel completely and royally repulsive, stained and unclean, never to be let in to soil the &quot;lovely people&quot; again.&nbsp; Which, incidentally, is how it usually happens.<br />Yet there are soooooo many of the &quot;lovely people&quot; that later come to me and ask questions because they're either interested in or already are involved in something similar, but don't want others to know it.&nbsp; Because it's LE GASP! wrrrrooooong!&nbsp; (If I could use emoticons tonight, there'd be a question-guy here!)</p> <p>Completely baffling.</p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/are-you-depraved-dark-urges-in-sex-and-relationships#post-41235 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 05:11:56 +0000 Dawn 41235@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>I dated a guy that was into the Marquis de Sade. I had no idea at the time what that meant. I mean I had heard the name, but didn't know what he was all about. I didn't think&nbsp;thisguy was depraved...just adventurous. He never hurt me and it made me feel like I was in his hands, like AllState,&nbsp;and didn't quite know what to expect next. </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/are-you-depraved-dark-urges-in-sex-and-relationships#post-41233 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 04:55:55 +0000 Monica 41233@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>I used to feel depraved in my sexual relationships but I think it's because I didn't feel I could REALLY share that side of myself with my previous long term partners.</p> <p>The other night me and my honey were talking and and he said something like &quot;You know, if we weren't the same (regarding our sexual tastes/fantasies/etc), it probably wouldn't work out.&quot; And I think he's right... </p> <p>If one person wants to try something and the other one thinks, &quot;WTF?&quot; then that's no good. :p&nbsp; But when they're equally &quot;fucked up&quot; (and I use that term in a joking manner :D) then it feels great!</p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/are-you-depraved-dark-urges-in-sex-and-relationships#post-41189 Tue, 02 Feb 2010 23:33:05 +0000 Velvet 41189@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>Nothing wrong with a little light bondage in a loving relationship....but then I am a Scorpio venus and have sun conjunct pluto...<img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/icon_wink.gif" /> </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/are-you-depraved-dark-urges-in-sex-and-relationships#post-39556 Sun, 24 Jan 2010 04:53:41 +0000 SaDiablo 39556@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>Feh.&nbsp; My SuperScorp keeps saying, &quot;I'm up for trying it out&quot; (besides multiple-partner trysts, he's straight vanilla).&nbsp; But in practice, not so much.</p> <p>&quot;Can I ...?&quot;<br />&quot;No.&quot;</p> <p>&quot;How about ... ?&quot;<br />&quot;No.&quot;</p> <p>&quot;Well, will you ... ?&quot;<br />&quot;No.&quot;</p> <p>Finally told him the other day that since he can't give me what I need and <em>won't</em> give me what I want, I had no clue why I was still there.&nbsp; So at least now he's&nbsp;making small, squirmy steps&nbsp;instead of immediately rejecting the idea outright.&nbsp; I don't ever think he'll be enthusiastic about it, though.</p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/are-you-depraved-dark-urges-in-sex-and-relationships#post-39517 Sat, 23 Jan 2010 22:59:32 +0000 citygirl1980 39517@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>I love this post!</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>I am <strong>very</strong> sex depraved. Been this way for a long time...I have desires, fantasies, and urges, but they are very healthy. Sadly, most my sexual experiences have been lackluster. I need a Scorpio...stat! </p>