http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ ElsaElsa Boards Topic: Instant Attraction Vs Acquired Attraction en Fri, 19 Mar 2010 20:48:14 +0000 http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/instant-attraction-vs-acquired-attraction#post-2493 Sun, 22 Mar 2009 13:45:40 +0000 lindsey 2493@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>instant.&nbsp; the times i've tried to kindle&nbsp;love relationships&nbsp;from friendships w/out the atttraction have proven disastrous.&nbsp; then again, some of those instant ones have been disastrous as well...natal venus retro&nbsp;in aries, squaring saturn &amp; jupiter and trine uranus and pluto... </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/instant-attraction-vs-acquired-attraction#post-2492 Sun, 22 Mar 2009 13:14:01 +0000 LisLioness 2492@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>Always been instant attraction for me.&nbsp; Or some kind of crazy situation that led to love.&nbsp; I've never been the girl who had a long time HS boyfriend or dated someone for years on end. </p> <p>&nbsp;Then again, I have all three outer planets aspecting Venus, and Jupiter in Libra on the DSC. </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/instant-attraction-vs-acquired-attraction#post-2491 Sun, 22 Mar 2009 11:25:43 +0000 Ena 2491@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>This is so strange. I'm a mix of both instant attraction and acquired attraction. Maybe because my Venus is in opposition with Saturn, and&nbsp; they are both squaring my Uranus. The thing is: every time I felt&nbsp; instant attraction it turned out to be a disaster. it was usually a shallow thing, and it was gone as soon as I talked to a guy. But, one time when I really&nbsp; loved it was acquired attraction, after knowing him for a while. But even than, it was kind of a sudden thing. Like one day I opened my eyes and seen this man for the first time. I'm still confused about it. </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/instant-attraction-vs-acquired-attraction#post-1840 Thu, 12 Mar 2009 07:03:29 +0000 Anonymous 1840@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>shell...i love you. ha ha ha! </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/instant-attraction-vs-acquired-attraction#post-1829 Thu, 12 Mar 2009 00:19:49 +0000 sinmarazul 1829@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>There's gotta be either a strong liking or a strong dislike. It's never in between or a maybe. I'm either into her or not at all. Either way, it's a good sign, but most of the time that sudden dislike of physical features means that I actually find her beautiful. I don't know, it's very strange, but it's like waking up and finding someone you've always found ugly completely irresistible. I can't explain it.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>I have venus in scorpio conjunct pluto in the 5th house. Also venus square jupiter, semisextile saturn and trine my ascendant. When I feel that sudden pull it's very obsessive, it's life consuming.&nbsp; </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/instant-attraction-vs-acquired-attraction#post-1822 Wed, 11 Mar 2009 21:24:38 +0000 flip58 1822@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>It is very real in my life. My husband felt an instant attraction to me. After our first meeting, he told his mom that he was going to marry me. I, on the other hand, am very slow to develop feelings. </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/instant-attraction-vs-acquired-attraction#post-1820 Wed, 11 Mar 2009 20:48:38 +0000 Jilly 1820@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>are there a lot of venus virgos here or is my imagination? </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/instant-attraction-vs-acquired-attraction#post-1802 Wed, 11 Mar 2009 15:42:24 +0000 Anonymous 1802@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>Good to know I am not alone ladies! </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/instant-attraction-vs-acquired-attraction#post-1771 Tue, 10 Mar 2009 23:17:34 +0000 shell 1771@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>Hi Bella, I have Venus in Virgo in the 11th too! </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/instant-attraction-vs-acquired-attraction#post-1770 Tue, 10 Mar 2009 23:13:39 +0000 sinmarazul 1770@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>Bella, I'm exactly like that. I have Venus semisextile Saturn. </p>