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ElsaElsa Boards Topic: Over-projection in relationships http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ ElsaElsa Boards Topic: Over-projection in relationships en Sun, 21 Mar 2010 04:21:50 +0000 Sweethiez on "Over-projection in relationships" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/over-projection-in-relationships#post-17181 Thu, 27 Aug 2009 04:58:11 +0000 Sweethiez 17181@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ Hey Mary, I have almost the same disposition of planets! Neptune and South Node conjunct my descendant.. Saturn<img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/scorpio.gif" />-Pluto<img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/libra.gif" /> conjunction in the 5th house and moon-mars-venus in pisces square neptune!! I have trouble finding someone for me and it saddens me sometimes but I KNOW that my imagination is to my issue! I recently had pluto transit (square) all my pisces planets and that's when I became conscious of my problems with this dude that I fantasized about and he was EXACTLY a neptunian type.. Alcoholic, drug addict and bigamous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BUT I STILL LIKED HIM!!! <img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/icon_confused.gif" /> <img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/icon_redface.gif" /> Now Pluto is transiting my 7th house.. well.. it just started and is about to conjunct my south node.. I understand better but not fully.. In order to live a more balanced perspective on life, it's easier and more rewarding to cooperate with the process! I read this somewhere and I hope I'll understand one day!   persian_cat on "Over-projection in relationships" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/over-projection-in-relationships#post-16689 Mon, 24 Aug 2009 03:19:38 +0000 persian_cat 16689@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ Hi Mary, Here's an early bird comment. The real sensible comments will come later. <img src="/my-plugins/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/images/icon_smile.gif" /> Are you dealing with indecision here? You were in two relationships that you neither wanted.  One sage said (forgot the name), if you don't jump off the edge, the universe will kick you nonetheless. Pluto transits are powerful based on personal experience and even I am currently experiencing a transit to my 7th house right now.  You will be shaken to the core, and that includes your basic belief systems.  If Pluto is transiting your south node then I think this particular theme gets more intensified.  Did you have a grand history of indifference and indecision? Of refusing to take ownership? Lots of issues that you really have to deal from within yourself independent of what you have grown accustomed to. Others dread the pluto transits but for me it has been a blessing.  It's like a strong whacking that really brings you to your senses.  Be prepared to be stripped to the core, though. Pluto transits is like a dirty job.  But somebody, er some planet has to do it.     Mary1982 on "Over-projection in relationships" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/over-projection-in-relationships#post-16581 Sat, 22 Aug 2009 22:52:24 +0000 Mary1982 16581@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ Hi! I´m experiencing a pluto transit in my 7th house, it began a few years ago. Natally, I have neptune on the desc and I also have south node in the 7th house plus saturn conjunct pluto in libra. I have recently ended a long relationship that was not fullfilling at all. But since I could not break it up, finally the other did. For the last seven years I have been in two steady, long relationships that were not what I wanted, not at all, but nevertheless I stood right there. And the reason I´m writing this here is that I´m looking back towards my attitudes in relationships and realize I used to project myself so much in relationships that I even did not know who I were anymore. A lot of negative Libra attitudes of "being" what the other want me to be or do and a whole lot of neptune attitudes of idealizing and seeing what I wanted to see in the other, instead of really looking what I had in front of me. (I must say I also have venus square neptune) I´m really hoping this long pluto transit will teach me how to relate. Because if I´m not able to establish a reciprocal relationship, I rather be alone. And this cuts deeply. Did you ever had any experience of over-projection in relationships and over-idealizing the other one? Any of you has Neptune in the 7th, South node in the 7th or are/had experiencing/ed a pluto transit on the 7th house? Thank you