http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ ElsaElsa Boards Topic: Saturn in Libra is already working on me... en Sun, 21 Mar 2010 02:54:51 +0000 http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/saturn-in-libra-is-already-working-on-me#post-28323 Thu, 05 Nov 2009 00:45:04 +0000 Lola 28323@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>CityGirl,</p> <p>&nbsp;Im with Bananas and Lupa on this one: nevermind his stupid ass and stop checking his Facebook!</p> <p>I read your post a while back (I recently just got out of a mangled long term relationship myself), so I know where youre at and I definitely feel for you. Its hard when your IN IT and cannot see the forest for the trees. But when we get out of these relationships there is no telling what the other might do, say, react....the ONLY thing you can choose here is how YOU are going to THRIVE and NAVIGATE through this new emotional and life climate you find yourself in. It sucks, it hurts, and...you cannot care anymore about him and his choices. Im sure my ex is out as I write this, charming some unexpecting young woman off her ass with his narcissistic wiles, but you know what?&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;FUCK EM.</p> <p>Let the next woman be the recipient of your ex's bullshit. He is no longer your problem. Period. LET somebody else try...and fail. Just keep focused on moving on,GROWING, and DEEPLY ENJOY the nice moments that will flourish now that your are no longer under the tyranny of your relationship. When those moments come, ABSORB EVERYTHING. Break free and begin creating positive, healthy moments....those that you were starved for when you were with him. </p> <p>&nbsp;Oh, and there is no shame at all in moving home during a time like this. Relax, Be nourished, and surround yourself with goodness--its not a crime! </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Peace,&nbsp;</p> <p>Lola xo </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/saturn-in-libra-is-already-working-on-me#post-28112 Wed, 04 Nov 2009 01:05:57 +0000 Lupa 28112@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>What are you doing looking at his facebook? &nbsp;If you can manage to avoid tracking his movements whether it's checking up on him yourself or having well meaning friends report back to you, you will feel a lot better. &nbsp;I know it's tempting to satisfy your curiosity but that will only bring you pain. &nbsp;</p> <p>*hugs* &nbsp;I've moved back in with my parents FOUR times over the course of my adult life. &nbsp;I understand feeling grateful for the support, ashamed that I needed it and stuck back in childhood dynamics all at once. &nbsp;Hang in there!</p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/saturn-in-libra-is-already-working-on-me#post-28111 Wed, 04 Nov 2009 01:01:49 +0000 Bananas 28111@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>Oh, Citygirl, never you mind his stupid ass. </p> <p>YOU'RE FREE!</p> <p>It's going to take some time to recognize it but once you do... whoo! Life is going to be SO MUCH BETTER.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>xoxo</p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/saturn-in-libra-is-already-working-on-me#post-28063 Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:54:16 +0000 notatirem 28063@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>What house is your Saturn in? </p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/saturn-in-libra-is-already-working-on-me#post-28062 Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:53:51 +0000 Anonymous 28062@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>Oh shit citygirl, I learned that I was wrong. Your Saturn Return doesn't end based on your rising sign, it ends based on what degree your SATURN is in.</p> <p>For example, my Saturn is in 1 degree Capricorn. So when Saturn reaches 1 degree Aquarius, that's when my Saturn Return ends!</p> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/saturn-in-libra-is-already-working-on-me#post-28051 Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:41:09 +0000 Anonymous 28051@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <br /> http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/saturn-in-libra-is-already-working-on-me#post-28023 Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:36:22 +0000 citygirl1980 28023@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ <p>As many of you all know, I have been posting my trails and tribulations of my failing relationship/marriage. I have chatted with Elsa about it, and many others on here, and that has really helped me to make it or break it.</p> <p>I moved back home to Minneapolis a few weeks ago, while I am happy to be home and getting emotional support from my mother and siblings, i'm still going through the drama with my soon-to-be ex husband...over 1000 miles away.</p> <p>At the moment, I am having the hardest time finding a job, meeting new people, and staying afloat. I am living with my mother, but I feel ashamed to be living at home at 29. I try to keep it together every single day, but the edges are slowly starting to crack.&nbsp;</p> <p>Just yesterday, my husband and I got into this screaming match on the phone for almost 2 hours because I found out he &quot;convienently&quot; decided to post photos of himself on his facebook page and declaire himself as single. I took it as his way of putting himself back on the market for his &quot;galpals&quot; and to satisfy his family which whom never thought fondly of me at all, in fact, I am sure they are still celebrating my absence from their son's life.&nbsp;</p> <p>Basically, he informed me during our shouting match that he is moving on, and that I should too, and that he's going to do what he wants. Even before I came back home, we had a lengthy, pleaseant talk about being adult and fair about the split and that we would be open to someday mending the fences and getting back together. I was optimistic about our talk and was under the assumption would'nt hurt each other no more.</p> <p>Right now, I feel emotionally ruined and yes, broken. I never thought it would affect me this much, but it is. He changed the minute I got on the plane, and will never be the man I knew and loved ever again.</p> <p>I think saturn in libra as a lot to with this because it gives a karmic effect, like splitting us up and having him turn on me like I did to him at one point. I'm suffering and he's not. he's still employed and i'm not. He's on his on his own and I'm not. I don't know if I will ever be happy again, I don't know if I will ever see that way out the dark tunnel again. and I dont know if saturn will ever leave me alone and allow me to move on&nbsp; and make a life for myself again. Knowing that I am going through my first saturn return in Virgo in which gave me...HECK. This is too much. </p> <p>I would like to know if anyone can give me advice on how to survive this...again.</p> <p>Thank You,</p> <p>XOXO&nbsp;</p>