ElsaElsa Boards Topic: What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)

ElsaElsa Boards Topic: What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?) http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ ElsaElsa Boards Topic: What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?) en Fri, 19 Mar 2010 20:47:25 +0000 ingrid on "What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/whats-the-one-absolute-best-thing-you-can-do-to-asag-virgo-scorpio#post-44780 Thu, 18 Feb 2010 07:19:39 +0000 ingrid 44780@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ As a Pisces--don't tell me you love me-show me by rubbing my feet. And tell me a good story while you're doing it. Dina on "What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/whats-the-one-absolute-best-thing-you-can-do-to-asag-virgo-scorpio#post-44673 Wed, 17 Feb 2010 23:28:56 +0000 Dina 44673@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ Cancer: if they have an issue and feel at sea, don't just advise them on it, be a port in the storm, a place they can take comfort in.  I guess I mean mother them a little bit haha.  Hums "what do I care how much it ma storm, I've got my love to keep me warm." I appreciate that a lot.  alicia on "What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/whats-the-one-absolute-best-thing-you-can-do-to-asag-virgo-scorpio#post-29595 Sat, 14 Nov 2009 04:04:49 +0000 alicia 29595@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ mudlike--what's you're sign? ;) ps, are you saying that showing weakness is showing potential (aka the seed)? speaking of my taurus ladies--they are some of the strongest women I know (even if they don't know it) and they jump at any opportunity to express this energy and how I (or others) might be able to manipulate it and create/cultivate my own strength.  mudlikesubstance on "What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/whats-the-one-absolute-best-thing-you-can-do-to-asag-virgo-scorpio#post-29594 Sat, 14 Nov 2009 03:45:39 +0000 mudlikesubstance 29594@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ Alicia - saying: "For the Tauruses, show your weakness or vulnerablity, they want to help you build strength. All of the Taurus women I know are more often than not trying to help build me up, without letting me think I am even in the slightest bit weak. They are amazing creatures."   That's like saying that a seed is weak.  That's just not true.  A seed is a very very strong thing.  It has it's vulnerabilities during parts of it's growth until it's a strong plant/tree/bush that can withstand wind, rain, snow until it grows old and dies but the potential and the strength is there IN THE SEED. It's one of the strongest things out there.  Maybe your taurus friends just see you as a seed or as going through the transplanting stage (a tough time for young seedling).  :) mudlikesubstance on "What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/whats-the-one-absolute-best-thing-you-can-do-to-asag-virgo-scorpio#post-29591 Sat, 14 Nov 2009 03:30:08 +0000 mudlikesubstance 29591@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ for the earth signs: tell them that you appreciate/admire their hard work.  Ask them to help you on a project or offer to help them on one also.  Many earth signs feel as if they labor alone and no one sees the hard hard effort that goes into the things they do.  (maybe that is just my earth screaming out under pressure but I see it in the MANY earth sign friends I have) for Leos: laugh at their jokes and pet them if you're close enough (they're really just big cats that purrr when loved)  I swear my mom is a Leo rising and she just glows if I brush her hair for her or massage her shoulders. I mean that quite literally about petting - not ego but physical.  But ONLY if you are close enough relationship-wise to do so appropriately. for Gemini: yeah, skip the gossip.  Go with politics, science, new tech, inventions, interesting stories and stuff happening in the world.  I'd say this is pretty much the same for my aquarian friends too.  They're way more interested in the stuff that is happening that is new and different. for Pisces: thank them for their love   TwentyTwo on "What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/whats-the-one-absolute-best-thing-you-can-do-to-asag-virgo-scorpio#post-29588 Sat, 14 Nov 2009 03:23:21 +0000 TwentyTwo 29588@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ In my opinion....  Admire an Aries (through actions, not words vs. Leo- state your praise) - follow their lead, and catch their enthusiasm.   Seek advice for a problem (no emotional) from a Capricorn and respect their opinion, and be grateful for the valuable time they took to give you that advice.  Inquire about the creative genius that is an Aquarius.  Ask them for ideas and be dazzled by them. Appreciate uniqueness.  Create a more peaceful landscape or environment for a Libra. Allow them to talk, and never disagree. If what they say lacks humility, dont be startled, just reinforce them with more compliments.     alicia on "What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/whats-the-one-absolute-best-thing-you-can-do-to-asag-virgo-scorpio#post-29576 Sat, 14 Nov 2009 02:01:57 +0000 alicia 29576@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ luci, kash, lotion--all pisces wants is love...(unconditional, universal, expanding) So funny you all said basically the same thing (with variations). For the Scorpio, allow them to be them, because so often in front of others they are someone else (or a beefed up version of themselves). That's what my Scorpio loves anyway... For the Tauruses, show your weakness or vulnerablity, they want to help you build strength. All of the Taurus women I know are more often than not trying to help build me up, without letting me think I am even in the slightest bit weak. They are amazing creatures.   lotion on "What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/whats-the-one-absolute-best-thing-you-can-do-to-asag-virgo-scorpio#post-29556 Fri, 13 Nov 2009 23:42:51 +0000 lotion 29556@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ libra - be appreciative of the things they do for you; appreciate their presence in your life; don't fight with them and be fair when you do! share things with them (feelings, thoughts, food etc), share, not give. sag - bring them places they never been to before, or let them live vicariously through your own (well told) stories of adventure; tlk to them about your own philosophical musings in daily life; joke around with them and not get easily offended scorpio - communicate with them without words; let them feel like they are the only ones who knows you, key word is exclusive  pisces - love them and show it in a romantic way; sweet talk to them; make them see and experience beauty/romance in their mind's eye; let them sacrifice something for you when they really want to and don't feel sorry about it aries - fight with them and let them win (you really have to put up a good fight though!); notice things they do that are different from others and let them know you have noticed them; differentiate them from everyone else gemini - listen, listen, listen to them, REALLY listen to what they say because that's the only way you'll be able to contribute to the conversation, and they love that virgo - consult them and ask for their help (something they have expertise in); don't humiliate them; don't force attention onto them leo - be open hearted and don't judge them; be sincere with them; let them have all the attention aquarius - tell them they are weird/unique/different (and why)         liori on "What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/whats-the-one-absolute-best-thing-you-can-do-to-asag-virgo-scorpio#post-29545 Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:12:36 +0000 liori 29545@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ Mmmm tomato soup, my favourite :-) Just don't try to get me to listen to your problems while I'm still waiting for my food. First things first :-) Caroline on "What's the one absolute BEST thing you can do to a....(Sag, Virgo, Scorpio...?)" http://boards.elsaelsa.com/topic/whats-the-one-absolute-best-thing-you-can-do-to-asag-virgo-scorpio#post-29523 Fri, 13 Nov 2009 19:19:33 +0000 Caroline 29523@http://boards.elsaelsa.com/ I don't like people saying that the best thing you can do for a Gemini is to indulge them in gossip. That's the shadow side of Gemini. As a Gemini, I would say the best thing you can do for me is to talk to me about something that's intellectually stimulating. AKA not gossip. Let's talk about a book or a movie or analyze something worth analyzing. Not just who had sex with who when they got too drunk last Friday night.   Tam, I know what you mean about having people telling you what you think and feel. I've gotten really frustrated about that in the past. I don't know what your experience has been, but I think I got frustrated because it was hitting a nerve re: something that I was in denial about. I've talked about in another thread about how I feel I only understand my emotions on an intellectual level - only through ideas and logical processes. However, converting emotions into ideas/logic does not always work. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that people have noticed emotions that I have felt that I did not know I possessed until they were pointed out by somebody else (AKA a Scorpio, hehe). Very thankful for it, too!