I have been dating a virgo now for about a month and a half. We pretty much have our ups and downs in the relationship. When things are good, they are the best they can be and when they are bad, run for cover. I thought in the begining things with him would be somewhat easier than for most arians, because my moon is in virgo. But unfortunately, we are as opposite sometimes as ying and yang. I would like to know, how do you work out differences with your partner thats so much different than you? I don't like to fight with him because he is the type that speaks sternly and critically and I always find myself playing the roll with eye ball rolling and occasional spats of "no way, I TOTALLY didn't know that genius!" He has a way of being able to seep in my brain and know something is wrong with me and doesn't stop at it even when I don't want to talk about it. Sometimes I wonder if he thinks I am a machine. Also, I'm more emotion and he's more intellectual when it comes to romance. How does an arian explain to a virgo, as well as negotiate how to work out what one wants from one another? He's really dedicated to me and I love him with all my heart, but I feel sometimes that it's like he has his mind set to settling with me in such a way where theres a system too. But I feel he has a lot to prove to me and there is so much more we have to experience and let time take it's course with any ways of committing.

We would have to know where the other planets in his chart are especially his moon sign.

 Difficult to analyze a person based solely on their sun sign.