What is the astrological makeup of people who are attracted to you?  What about the people you are attracted to?  The people who have been most attracted to me have been Cancer Suns, maybe because they like the big boobs or I wear my stellium on my sleeve.  Lately I have a Capricorn friend with Venus in Capricorn/Mars in Aquarius who doesn't like my big boobs or something and I have been insecure about them.

Virtually all ALL the men I have ever been involved with in my life have Moon in either Scorpio or Aquarius. 

I am attracted back of course.

Ugh Cancer suns when I was a teenager and mostly Libra suns since I've been in my mid twenties... no more, thankyouverymuch

Also Aquarius suns (like me).  I think I like those much better. 

Also, everyone I've ever been with has either been born in '76 or '79 (I was born in '81)  I've always thought that's kind of funny...

How come you don't like Cancer and Libra suns, Monica?

I know I can't speak for every Cancer/Libra, just the ones I know intimately and I know that there is good/bad in all, but the experience I have with Cancer sun men is that they are whiny, overemotional crybabies.  Both were Cancer sun/Cancer rising.  That mix did not go well with my Air Sun/Moon/Venus.

Libra is supposed to get along with Aquarius very well and well, my mom, 2 best friends, several other close friends, ex-husband, and a few guys I've been involved with have been Libras so I have been surrounded with them all my life, and one thing they all have in common is a penchant for the overdramatic, grudge keeping, etc etc.  All those things are on the overemotional side for me, as well, and while I can deal with this with friends, in a partner, well, I am sure my detachment was as annoying to them  as their less desireable traits were to me.

 Now, the 2 Aquarians I've been involved with, we understand each other perfectly!

All water sign suns and ascendants. Most of the men I dated are water signsTaurus Sun and ascendant (the only one I've been attracted to is my significant other)Aries Suns (Because I'm a badass... This never works though)

Funny that I've only been attracted to one Taurus, considering I have a Venus in Taurus...  I attract them but I seem to prefer the ever complicated Scorpio or Pisces :P Water sign guys just... "get" me.

So does it happen a lot where you attract people based on your Venus sign but are not attracted to them?  I have Venus in Cancer, but in the past I've been really attracted to Aquarians.  I do have Aquarius Rising.  Maybe because I have Venus quincunx Uranus and other Uranus aspects.

I feel like I've had such an odd love life and now I figure in the astrology-- whereas when I was younger, I didn't.

I do know that I am VERY attracted to men whose Pluto conjuncts my Venus (at 26 Leo)-- although that adds up to a lot of men (and they are usually at least 10 years older than me).

With all my Neptune stuff (squares/opps/descendent is Pisces, Venus in 12th) I have no clue who is attracted to me and why or why not. It's always been confusing part of my life.

All the men I've been seriously involved with or have had mega-attractions to, are air signs with moon in Virgo (one Leo moon, but he was also a Scorp sun).   They usually have their Venus & Mars in earth and water, though, and relatively little fire in their charts. 

I am: Sun  & Merc Leo, Cap rising, moon Aqua, Venus Libra, Mars Sag.

Mine have been pretty different, except for the fact that they all have some sort of Uranus-Venus thing going on.

I always always attract men with a lot of Aries or "Mars" energy.

Pisces I tend to attract in my life in general, but not romantically.The one's I respect and appreciate are amazing people. Then there are some that are so selfish and self destructive I want seriously knock them out and ask them what the hell is wrong with them. 

I've attracted a few Leo's, a scorpio, Sag, a libra, taurus and a Virgo.

I married young LOL But the leo's were to smothering and attention whoring for me, the scorpio was to up and down... wanted to much control. The sag was a lot of fun.. but it was when he had time.. the libra was to clingy, and the taurus was decent but wrong time and place I guess... 

I married the Virgo.. He's for me. Real, down to earth, gives me space and above all makes and effort. and thankfully doesn't buy me stupid shit I don't need. He understands my lack of interest in flowers, cards and jewelry. LOL I'd rather a good meal, a bottle of wine (Or a few beers) and a nice chat... I'm a cheap date! LOL 

"Stupid shit you don't need" LOL
I hear you.... I am SO going through that these days...he's not my husband and he does give me stuff I DO need but oh man I have a useless collection of something now that I do not need....

Almost all the men in my life until now were Leos  - my father, my boyfriend in high school, my husband. And most of them have Moon in Scorpio/Venus in Virgo as well.  The man I'm with now is a Cancer Sun/Venus with Leo rising which seems to work much better with my Taurus Sun, but still attracts my Mars in Leo. He has water, air and fire and I have earth air and fire so we balance each other pretty well. And with my Aquarius Moon I need his Sag Moon to give me my space.

I seem to have a thing for Mars in Leo.  In my chart, the only thing in Leo is Saturn, so I'm really hoping this Mars in Leo commonality isn't indicative of some kind of daddy issue.

Surely I'll notice another overlap. 

I get a lot of Venus-Pluto, consistently comes up in all its variations. Sometimes Venus-Uranus as well. I have a busy Venus w/lots of aspects, but no Venus-Pluto. It's kinda weird, no idea what they see in me. But I typically find them very attractive.

In the opposite sex, I'm usually attracted to a Taurus or Scorpio.

I have venus and mercury in scorpio, so have my deepest loves.

With Venus/Mars in Cap and  Moon/ASC in Sag,  I've always attracted Fire/Earth combos with a seriously goofy sense of humor.

I didn't think they had anything in common, at first, but upon closer inspection, it appears myself and all my previous relationships (all three of them - so we're talking about four people in total with me in the equation) have had Pluto in Libra and Neptune in Sagittarius.

Myself and my current boyfriend are both Pluto retrograde.

Wow. Weird.  

Edit: This is also true of my best friend from the end of middle school to about four years after college. :D 

When I was in my teens and early 20s, I attracted a LOT of Taureans.  My first serious high school boyfriend was a Taurus.

My pattern changed to Cardinal signs in my mid 20s (Aries, Libra, and Capricorn--no Cancer here either.  Cancers and Pisceans aren't my type, but I attracted quite a few Scorpios.  I dated three in a row at one time.)  I married the Capricorn.

My Venus is at 29 Virgo, with Pluto at 25 Virgo.  The Taureans' and Cap hubby's Suns are trine the conjunction.  That also meant my Saturn was conjunct the Taureans' Suns.  I guess they didn't think I was a downer, since I dated so many of them.

I only dated one or two Virgos, not for very long, either, so I guess I was too intense (Venus/Pluto) or mega chatty (Mercury, at 11 Virgo) for them.

The first boy I ever had sex with was a Scorpio.  I was 14 and he was 12. I didn't know he was 12 until later, he seemed more sexually mature than that. We met doing theatre, Alice in Wonderland.  He barely spoke to me until one day back stage during a run through I saw him sneak behind the excess folds of the curtain and stay there until his cue.  The next rehearsal, I ran off the stage and rushed through my costume change. I don't know what had gotten into me, it was an OCD kinda feeling pushing me to get there before him.  It was an amazing lookout spot.  You could see the side of the stage, noone could see you.  I wondered if he would even come or would he notice me in his space and find somewhere else to hide...

Leos and Sadges love me.  I think Leo because of the air/fire thing - I'm a very adaptable Gemini who can go along with whatever they enjoy and have some fun but let them shine.  Sadges I can only guess because I have a Sadge moon.