Hi - I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months. We have been extremely on and off. We go fine for a week or two, them boom, a HUGE fight. He is a Libra Sun, me a Cancer Sun. I have a Taurus Moon - he is Pisces. Has anyone had experience with men with Venus in Scorpio? I believe that is where our problems lie (my Mars in Libra...HATE fighting) plus his past relationship was very rocky (he filed a restraining order on HER). Any info./advice/comments would be appreciated:-) THANKS!!!!

Yep, my boyfriend has Venus (and Moon-Neptune) in Scorpio. He doesn't even yell or anything (he's got a pretty good stink-eye, though).

Where is his Mars?

His Sun is opposing your Moon, that can be tough at times in a relationship.

Can I ask what you fight about? What people fight about it super important...I've heard that for many couples the very first fight ever becomes the most common fight later on in an argument. 

He sounds sexy...teehee

Hes looking for an intense experience, you're looking for peace.  Unless you can find a way to create intense peace, hes gonna pick a fight.  My advice, Don't take the bait.  Just simply refuse to fight with him no matter how low the blows go.  He'll find the power play very arousing.

I have Venus in Scorpio conjunct Pluto in the 5th house. Also Mars in Aries.

My girlfriend has Venus in Libra/Mars in Capricorn. When we have a disagreement, it's mainly my fault because I'm always creating a volatile and intense environment. She doesn't like arguing and actually becomes very uncomfortable/nervous when it happens. I don't like arguing either, but it's very hard for me to find peace. I have excellent memory ( Cancer ascendant trine my Venus in Scorpio) and it doesn't help the fact that I hold grudges easily. I bring things up all of a sudden that change our moods completely or I'll ask her questions that I already know the answer to. The things that I bring up are things that she has done ( most of which she did when she wasn't even dating me) in the past. I always hold her accountable for everything she's done in the past sort of like " how could you do this to me even though I wasn't there? "

Also, I'm very controlling and I get jealous extremely fast over anything. That jealousy causes repressed anger ( I think that's my mars square neptune ) and that causes me to bring up things from the past. I have issues resolving problems completely and she hates when I bring things up that we've already discussed. I need constant reassurance and need to feel that I am constantly in control of the situation. If I feel that something is changing, I already begin to feel lost and disoriented. 

However, we don't argue or fight at all. We are not on and off in any way and we are absolute soulmates. Her firm hand and mind has helped me so much in changing my ways. Her maturity has also forced me to mature because a lot of my behavior ( apart from astrology ) is due to my immaturity and inability to comprehend reality. I believe that if both parties in a relationship are immature then the relationship will not move forward. I truly feel blessed. I hope this helps you.

I'm a guy here with Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Aries, so I love confrontation!

Like your boyfriend, I have a Libra Sun, a Pisces Moon, and my Venus in Scorpio.  So, I've got to ask ... are you looking at yourself at all in terms of where these fights are coming from?  It sounds like you're looking to his Venus to explain this, and I can't for the life of me fathom why.

My x-husband was Libra sun with Venus in Scorpio.  That's a killer combo...I mean, lots of sex appeal there...and women were attracted to him.  We def. had an explosive and problematic relationship....but so many factors to consider there, but for the sake of responding to the original question about  libra w/venus in scorpio.  My sense is that  Librians  are really put to the test, all the live-long day  with balancing ....EVERYTHING....so my take is  that when a Libra has that Scorpio intensity ON TOP of everything else...well, this combo is going to need an outlet....and I'm not sure Libra always acknowledges that need right away...sometimes not for a long time and then it can be too late.   They would rather do something pleasant  (& I can relate to this as I have Libra rising)  In the case of my x, it would feel like a rumbling... like tremors he was trying to control so he would not explode.  I'm Pisces and I would pick up on all of this and it was really stressful for me.    Of course, I had my own emotional turmoil chugging up there (and also kept under wraps with my own Libra).

So we had a rough time there.  We split up 9 years ago but have long since made peace and have a decent friendship now...which I'm grateful for since we have a child.

OH, and your man also has a Pisces moon....so there's more super sensitivity that needs an outlet....and as you're a Cancer....you probably do as well.  I'd say take a moonlight walk by the water...and have a heart to heart talk...once he's calmed down. Cancer has a great hold on Pisces....

I think your man may well be worth keeping.....but maybe you could help him acknowledge unexpressed anger and not direct it your way. 

 Good luck. 

Yep.. been there...

 I was with a libra sun with a venus in scorpio and moon in virgo...oh my gosh was that an INTENSE relationship. He was absolutley stunning physically and at times I'd feel threatened by his strong ego...but what I came to realize is that he was a good lover..not great boyfriend material. It was very superfical.  Being a sag sun and sag venus I wanted the experience...in the end the relationship just confused me and in a sense shook me off balance.

I'd say trust your instinct...figure out what it is that pushed your buttons. Trust him but most of all trust yourself and what it is you want out of the relationship. That's the one thing I wish I realized while I was IN the relationship. Good luck! :)

Same with me "Whosthatlady". I hope we were not dating the same guy. LOL. I'm a Sag as well. I have to agree with you, Libra sun, Venus Scorpio very very good in bed. My Mars is in Scorpio so it was out of this world INTENSE. He was my very first love and the one who deflowered me, LOL!! Our relationship lasted for many years. I broke it off and broke his senstive Libra heart. I've always regretted that. There has NEVER been one like him since.

My husband, who does not know his time of birth, is a Leo sun with Venus and Mars in Virgo. He's a very hard dedicated worker but nothing compared to that Libra sun Venus Scorpio bedroom skills. 

If I were you I would'nt kick your Libra sun Venus Scorpio, to the curb. You might regret it