The past two and a half years, especially the past two and a half have pretty much spun me around and thrown me against the wall.. love-wise, health-wise, family-wise, you name it.. Or so it feels this way.

Before explaining anymore than is necessary, is there anyone out there that would be willing to take a look at a chart or two and explain to me what is going on? The past year has been so taxing and with Neptune's leave from my 7th house this week, causing it to be completely burnt down (basically, hah), I am really unsure what to do. You all seem so knowledgeable and helpful, and any astrological input would be very much appreciated. I do understand some astrology, but I really have no experience with reading charts. I don't have my chart to post yet because I am not sure what chart should be calculated... I was told progression and solar arc, but I am not sure.. any thoughts? I would just like some insight on what may come about, what to expect, any heads up...

Infinite thank you's for anyone that even read this.

Welcome to the boards moonchildx.  A good chart to start with is your birth chart.  You may want to obscure some parts of your data in the top left corner of the page if you wish to maintain some degree of privacy.  Once your birth chart is here it usually goes from there, people then start commenting and trying to help. (If you can't post a chart someone may do that for you if you type out your birth date, time and and place).  If you then can/want to post further charts such as progressions and solar arcs that's all good too.  This link about about how the boards work may help.  Good luck.  Enjoy!

Welcome Moonchildx !!!

<----- Agrees with Bridie.

Natal birth chart is the one you'll want to use.  Astro.com will let you create your chart , and save it to your computer. I like to "open" it using MS Paint..... use that to "erase" any into I don't want others to see.... and then "save" it as a new JPEG file.

I'm sure others here will have a different method..... but as long as it works , that's all that counts!!!  You can follow what Bridie "linked" to post the new file to this board..... or simply put your birth data (we'll use your screen name) and someone will post it for you.

Again.... Welcome to the boards!!!!

Thank you so much, Bridie!

My natal chart:
http://i40.tinypic.com/2my0o4p.gif

Boyfriend's natal chart
http://i42.tinypic.com/of12li.gif

I am not 100% of his birth time, which could impose issues, but with estimation and clues on his birth time, we've settled on Libra ASC.. plus, it really does match pretty perfectly with who he is more than any other sign.

Within the past week (I blame it on neptune!), my boyfriend's career completely collapsed, forcing him to have to move back home... neptune left my 7th house and someone told me that my boyfriend had been dishonest and cheated on me, leaving me to say some things I didn't mean (I'm an Aries moon! hah!) and I have not talked with him since. We've had our ups and downs but we have been together for a year and a half and I have stuck by his side through thick and thin. At this point, I am really unsure what to do, not knowing what is true and what isn't... everything falling apart (his career, our relationship, amongst other things all in one week...I also worry he may slip into depression due to his career loss) Along with my terrible health and family situation and recently being diagnosed with thyroid disease (I'm only 22!), I'm not sure how much more i can handle.. losing him is the last straw. I'm already on medical leave from work and school (I'm a med student, which makes it even more difficult when time is lost) due to health, so times are rough. If anyone could give me some insight on where this may be headed (him and I), I will owe you a million thank you's.

If any other charts need to be calculated, let me know :)

Thank you all again!

Thank you so much, Glenn! I appreciate it very much!!

Hi, moonchildx!  *waves*

As a novice (just slightly above total beginner) astrology student, I find transits way more helpful with this kind of thing than progressions.  Transits are where you compare today's sky to your natal chart, almost like synastry with the universe.  :)

Transiting Pluto (today's Pluto) is really close to your descendant.  He'll station (stop) and retrograde before he crosses over that line, but it's more than close enough to feel the pressure already.  Your (ex?)boyfriend has already been through most of t. (transiting) Pluto conjuncting his Saturn-Uranus-Neptune conjunction, but you're smack in the middle of those same transits.  Pluto's also going to be stressing both your Aries moons, too, by squaring your moons and bf's Mars.  Searching here and on google/whatever-engine-of-choice for these transits will help you understand it better; if I tried to interpret all that here, I'd write a book and probably still be talking in circles.  ;)

Your natal Neptune conjunction is exactly conjunct your Dsc (descendant) and Neptune is transiting opposite n. (natal) Venus -- also exact today.  :)  What this means is basically "fogginess" around relationships in general.  It's just a part of who you are!  But that normal "fogginess" is getting a BIG boost from the universe right now, so it's likely to be easier for you to be swayed, mislead, believe the best about the other person (even if everyone else is saying how crappy they are), pine for someone you can't have... stuff like that.  That's just the negatives, though, and there are plenty of positives to Venus-Neptune!  (tag)

I think you're doing the right thing asking for an outside perspective, but is there anyone FTF you can go to as well?  They might have a better idea on whether or not you're seeing the forest for the trees, so to speak.  Especially when I read this:  "...someone told me that my boyfriend had been dishonest and cheated on me ... and I have not talked with him since."

How reliable is your source?  Is there hard evidence or just this person's word?  Because with Venus (love) as mashed with Neptune (illusion) as yours is right now, you can absolutely believe either the best or the worst about someone you're dating -- and neither may be true!  *grins*

Welcome, moonchildx. :)