Hello everyone!

I recently discovered that my Cancer crush has deleted all signs of me off his facebook, every comment I've made (about 3 comments, along with his response to each of them) have been deleted.  I really don't understand because it's not necessary, if the message he's trying to get across is:"Back off" then why did he asked me whether he would see me at  a concert on Friday? Of course he no longer has little details with me but I really don't understand what could I've possibly done!  Any expierence with this combo??  Also, he's a Venus Cancer (guys that approach me the most have this Venus sign).

 Thanks for sharing your experiences with this confused Libra Sun/Aries Moon

Hey purple_dust,

Sorry to hear about that guy. My guess is that he's started something with someone else or extremely particular about his privacy (esp. since he has a Cancer sun and venus), or both. Cancer isn't always good about being direct, hence the mixed messages. I dated a guy with this combo and he wasn't good at verbalizing his feelings, starting difficult conversations etc (and certainly not in public). I have a Cancer sun, but a Gemini moon, and Leo Venus so I was much more communicative, direct, etc. 

I'm guessing you unconciously hurt his feelings. So it's possible he was trying to save himself a perceived rejection by doing it to you first. It could be something he imagined in his head of course. Or possibly he realized your affection is too light in comparison to all that cancer he's got going which wants to cling. This is just my take but I don't know this guy.

I will say that I've done that shit before though. Always for a good reason but I don't bother warning the person if I don't feel like they can comprehend it.

<---Cancer sun, Aqua Moon, Venus in Cancer.

Well actuallly, if he didn't take you off his list you probably don't need to freak out. I erase comments all the time. Just don't like people looking at my business for too long. Cancer. Private.

Thank you for replying.  Everything's cool, apparently it was a privacy issue as you both suggested.

I realized that it'd better if I back off, too much anguish handling a Cancer... I'm constantly revising my words (and I'm politically correct enough, not blunt at all!! being a libra sun and mercury in libra person) and he remembers every little thing I say...