Decisions, decisions, decisions.

posted 3 months ago in Lounge
  •  
    1.
    6,506 posts
    Galaxy
    daisy (wall)    The other side for now   Bouncing up the mountain drunk

    Making a list of decisions I have made with my head, and a list of decisions I have made with my heart, looking for the imbalance. 

    How about you,  is there an imbalance, which side needs shored up? 

    Me,  well my head side out weighs the heart side,  even if it was fuzzy logic.  But then again there have been times of fuzzy love.  Oh well getting out the balance scale now.

     
    2.
    Member
    10,098 posts
    Milky Way
    Kashmiri (wall)       Earth on Fire

    Yes, definitely. My heart side outweighs the head side. I'm trying to work on this...

     
    3.
    Member
    13,523 posts
    Milky Way
    SaDiablo (wall)    Planets in Signs and Houses  

    Asking someone with a Libra stellium to decide which decisions were made logically and which emotionally is just torture, Daisy.  ;)

     
    4.
    Member
    7,848 posts
    Galaxy
    McKenna (wall)    Australia   Sun in Pisces, Capricorn Rising, Moon in Aries

    My head tends to outweigh my heart. Saturn, Saturn, Saturn...

     
    5.
    6,506 posts
    Galaxy
    daisy (wall)    The other side for now   Bouncing up the mountain drunk

    Hey SaD, if my pisces can do it,  so can you! 

     
    6.
    Member
    7,848 posts
    Galaxy
    McKenna (wall)    Australia   Sun in Pisces, Capricorn Rising, Moon in Aries

    No daisy... your Pisces THINKS it can do it... or has done it razz

     
    7.
    Member
    8,578 posts
    Galaxy
    CArRiE (wall)    Pacific NW   Aries Sun, Scorpio Moon & Rising

    Ah, come on... How am I supposed to answer that?  My Mercury (head) is in Pisces, my heart (Moon) is tied up with Neptune...  And let's just add impulse to the whole equation (Aries Sun).  I make my decisions with my gut.

     
    8.
    6,506 posts
    Galaxy
    daisy (wall)    The other side for now   Bouncing up the mountain drunk

    @McKenna it's my illusion, I'll tell it any way I want to razz

     
    9.
    Member
    8,155 posts
    Galaxy
    Tam (wall)       Gemini Sun Virgo Moon Gemini Rising

    Head over heart. The times I have followed my heart I was massacred. Seems like a no-brainer as to which one to go with.

     
    10.
    Member
    13,523 posts
    Milky Way
    SaDiablo (wall)    Planets in Signs and Houses  

    I have what I've come to think of as the ultimate in head-heart dichotomies: Leo (heart) sun and Aquarius (rational; "head") moon.  There's always a struggle.  Always, always, always, because Libra stellium can't decide for shit, anyway, even if there wasn't all this extra arguing going on behind-the-scenes!  *laughs*

    Leo wants to jump into the dog-pile.  Aqua stands back and says, "Wait, wait, wait... what are we doing here?"  Leo's like, "I don't know!  Let's DO EEEET!  WHEE!"  And Aqua is all, "WTF, dude?!  Purpose.  We have to have a purpose!  We can't just go all willy-nilly all over the place!  Who cares how it feeeeeeels?  Feeling's not enough."  And by that time Leo's jumping in the ball pit and getting a skinned knee, regardless, while Aqua sighs and looks discomfited.  :P

    Some days heart wins.  Some days head wins.  Some days, most days, inertia wins.  ;)

     
    11.
    Member
    302 posts
    Planet
    Caprion (wall)      

    I can't decide which one it is.

     
    12.
    Member
    7,848 posts
    Galaxy
    McKenna (wall)    Australia   Sun in Pisces, Capricorn Rising, Moon in Aries

    @SaD... this sound a lot like Aries & Cap arguing in my head.

    "Lets GOOOOOOOOOOOO!"

    "Are you NUTS? (insert looong list of why "going" is a bad... VERY bad idea... lecture, lecture. lecture...)

    Actually, my intuition RULES, so Pisces will trump every time, it's just that Saturn has the final say in what to DO with that feeling.

    & Aries is still all "What, What? Lets just JUMP for pities SAKE you guys... NOW!!!!!"

     
    13.
    Member
    13,523 posts
    Milky Way
    SaDiablo (wall)    Planets in Signs and Houses  

    :)  Fear usually stops me, McK.  (Sun-Saturn conjunction.)  You'd think that with all the emphasis on my moon, she'd always get the final say, but it's just not so.  More often than not, it's my fear of being out ----> there that gets the veto on any decision.

    Trying to get better at this, btw.  :)  "Feel the fear, do it anyway."

     
    14.
    Member
    1,996 posts
    Star
    Josephine (wall)    Florida   Virgo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Cap ASC

    What an interesting process, daisy! I'm not self aware enough to even begin to attempt something like that, but I admire you for doing so.

     
    15.
    Member
    592 posts
    Planetary ruler
    Nota Rikon (wall)    Tejas   Libra/Scorp/Leo

    What about all the ones I made with a coin?

     
    16.
    Member
    13,523 posts
    Milky Way
    SaDiablo (wall)    Planets in Signs and Houses  

    @Nota, it depends on whether you stuck with what the coin decided.  ;)

     
    17.
    Member
    3,017 posts
    Zodiac
    LisLioness (wall)    New Jersey   Shining Star/Miss Manners/Conquistador

    My heart (Leo Sun) and my head (Virgo Mercury) are evenly matched and battle constantly.

     
    18.
    Member
    3,388 posts
    Zodiac
    Liz (wall)    Ottawa   Sun Libra Asc Libra Moon Gemini

    I think they take turns. Hard to say though. My water and air get mixed up.

    Funny how I can't resist a "Decisions" thread. razz

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Get A Consultation

     

    Thanks, we look forward to working with you! :-)  - Elsa P

     
     

    Order a Report

    Heads Up from Elsa P!

    Sign up below to get my free weekly email newsletter covering the astrology of the next week. I send this email out every Thursday.

     

    Today's Posters

    Number of Posts

    Today Monthly Record
    Threads 4458
    Comments 682929
     
     

    More



     
     

    Recent Blog Comments

    • learningtoground: Wow what a solar return my daughter will have for her 13th year!
    • Rachel: Wow this is really great advice :)
    • spacerockz: i don't think i've ever been in love because i confuse love with...
    • omie: oh. The picture freaked me out too. I'm a baby about that stuff....
    • BurnedBridge: Profound and sound wisdom in your advice here Elsa. You were ver...
    • Satori: the pic is Star Wars, when Yoda sends Luke into the cave and he ...
    • josi: "Your experience is common for survivors of abuse. You finally g...