Woke up from Venus Rx in bed with a much older Capricorn with a Libra moon.  My venus is square his pluto, his pluto is square my venus.  Reminds me of Hellraiser, as in it feels like a puzzle cube with the potential to summon Pinhead and his entourage. "from the outer reaches of experience, we are demons to some, angels to others " or what ever the line is, I havn't seen that movie in forever.

Did I mention he plays soccer and his entire body is rock hard?

...I'm toast, what to do, what to do. ahhhhhhh,

Round of applause for notatirem!

(you had me at soccer)

Must escape before I become attached to him.  I've known him for almost two years. I've been very attracted to him for most of that time.  He invites me over for tea every once in a while.  We usually play a game or two of chess.  So about two weeks ago, Hes at my place and he looks at me and says "you like me?"  So I make the stupidest face and say "yeah."  He makes this almost flippant hand gesture, like scoot over here.  So I move closer to him.  BAM! Its on and it is rough and primal. 

Did I mention English is not his first language, so when he tells me all the things he wants to do its in a sexy accent.

Help, I've looked at our charts and Its a time bomb, need advice on how to get away. 

is he an asshole? why do you want to run away? do you not want to be hurt? (just wondering. I'm a useless venus aries/pluto type who generally plays now and burns later).

I just don't feel like getting super involved with someone right now, Saturns rolling through my first house and I'm enjoying the alone time.  I especially don't want to get super involved with someone I am so fundamentally incompatible with, (my saturn is square his sun/merc, my sun is square his uranus, and the mutual pluto venus squares mentioned above) and yes he is a litle bit of an asshole (in a charming cocksure kind of way.) I don't mind having casual sex with someone once or twice, but after that... you know, you start to bond with the person.  Yesterday he asked if my friends knew we were dating.  I thought "shit, I guess we are kind of dating." 

I guess what it boils down to is, Hes not what I'm really looking for, but I feel really drawn to him for some odd reason (he smells like sage)  and it is odd because we have a lot of akward moments together... Hes also kind of a rebound fling, and I have a libra stellium and what I'm actually trying to figure out here is, what do you guys think is the most polite way to stop having sex with someone but stay on friendly terms because hes my neighbor (and he has really helped my chess game improve.)  And do you even think that is possible? 

I think that's possible if he feels the same way about only wanting to boink and not get casual. If he does not feel the same way (wants more or less than you), then...probably not.

Are you sure you're going to be able to get away? It's perfectly reasonable to say, "I don't want to get involved" before the sex hormones kick in, but ah...they have kicked in here. And the Venus/Pluto stuff is compelling/addictive and would be hard to stop, especially if he lives next door and you're not fleeing to another country to get away. 

With both of your Venus-Pluto synastry squares, each of you feels its the other who has the power - but you are the one with the charts. Tell him what you told us (minus the astrology). Truth has a powerful resonance.

Yes I think it's possible. I've done it. This is exactly what I did: I invited him out for a drink, I told him the things I liked about him as a human, and then said "I'm not interested in having a physical relationship any longer." Being polite and straight up...well he was disappointed but every time I saw him after that I made sure I was "switched into neutral mode" (I pretended I was a grandma talking to her grandkid or something, no more sexual vibe at all) and maintained friendly convos. I also gave zero reaction when he did the inevitable play of 'ya still into me?' 

 My best friend has Saturn transiting her 1st House right now and she is experiencing similar enjoyment of quality alone time. 

Jessica, thank you {takes a bow}

kashmiri, you're a trip.

jenfullmoon, yes, you totally get the feeling going on here.

Deirdre, I really like your choice of words, powerful resonance, eerily poignant.