ever done it?  my mother slapped me.  I remember how it felt.  it wasn't horrible but it was like time stopped and like she thought it was a huge deal.  I suspect it was not because she felt guilty but because she really wanted to knock my head off.  I was a teenager.

I've said jokingly (rarely) to friends, "I'll slap your face off!"

I woke this morning thinking how satisfying it would be to slap a particular person I'm dealing with.  I'm kind of fantasizing about it, or at last I was when lying in bed this morning.

it's been a long time since I felt this way.  but what I'm wondering is have YOU ever actually slapped someone?  how did it feel to do the slapping?  were you sorry?  or not?  where's your mars?

my mars is in scorpio, third house quincunx an eighth house aries saturn.  I only shoot to kill not to wound, but I find myself just wondering what that is like. 

I hate pain :( I hate inflicting pain on someone... Although there was a point sometime in Jr. High where I envisioned banging this mean girl's head on the desk because she was popular yet mean to everybody. This was when I was 14 though. Times changed.

Now, as much as I'm a pacifist, I always have this "itch" to "break" people who are emotionally walled. People who do not outwardly show how they feel - as if they are hiding something. Stoic people. They make me very uncomfortable. I wonder sometimes whether they are human so I find myself resisting my urges to push their buttons - yet I never really had intentions of hitting them. I did throw a slipper at my ex-boyfriend once because I wondered why he was so stoic and unfeeling. But yeah - this "itch" remains an "itch" as I have a strong conscience. 

Mars in Leo (chart ruler) in the 5th house. Retrograde. conj. Jupiter in Virgo (5th), square Uranus (hence my fiery, explosive temper), trine Neptune, sextile Pluto. 

I have slapped an ex with a glove,lol. I did feel guilty afterward, I also punched and kicked him in a rage many years ago. I did feel guilty and my being out of control and hurting someone else. Then years later I was working in retail and dealing with an irrate male customer and I could vividly envision my fist connecting with his face the feel and impact of it. I didn't do it but I REALLY wanted to. Mars in Libra opposing my Saturn in Aries in the 10th house.

When I read the topic I thought more like when have i not thought about slapping someone.

I slapped the girl who used to follow me at recess calling to me "you're an ugly dog...you're a pizza face...ugly ugly ugly"...I finally said  "I'm going to slap you if you don't leave me alone"

and one day...SLAP! right in the face! I was in grade 7. She told on me, I got called into the principal's office and I said "she follows me and calls me names and tells me how ugly I am...I told her I'd slap her if she didn't leave me alone and so she was warned!"

I didn't get in trouble at all. I felt bad about hurting another person but I had spent my entire childhood being slapped (and worse). one of my older sisters slapped me in the face on a daily basis from the age of 5-12 years old. still don't like people touching my face, even jokingly tap tap.

i slapped a man when i was 18. he was a drunk stranger on the street who was sexually harassing a woman who, when I told him to leave her alone said he was going to "go down the street and pay some whore $50 to come kick the shit out of me"

I slapped a man who was sexually harassing me in a bar. then i threw my beer in his face. i was 19.

I haven't slapped anyone since then. I'm 32 now. I've decided the next time I feel the urge to slap I'm going to throw a breakable object instead--and not at their head. 

Aries Mars opposing Pluto, square Moon.  

oh and i wasn't sorry. not one whit. i was defending myself. I am not violent in my day to day life AT ALL but if you fuck with me in these sort of ways I'm not going to take it lying down.

Well, only in a sexual context have I been involved in slapping :)

::snicker:::

About a year and a half ago, my boyfriend and I got into a raging argument.

I'm 5'0 and he's 5'8, so by virtue of being little, everyone towers over me. 

He got up in my face. He got me against a wall and screamed in my face. I could feel his breath on my face and I was both enraged and scared, so I slapped him to get him away.

He told me I had "crossed a line" and he hadn't touched me, so I had no right to have hit him. He kept repeating that part, like saying it more than once makes it less bullshit and more true. Then he told me if it ever happened again, he'd call the cops. 

I told him to go right ahead and that he was lucky he still had his balls, cause I managed to restrain myself from ripping them right off and he got off light with a slap instead.  

He even went so far as to start calling it a "bitchslap", like it came out of nowhere and I did it for no reason.

Now when he gets up in my face, I stare him down and he walks away.  

I had a few fist fights as a teenager (15-19 yrs old), mostly involving underage drinking, lol, definitely not proud of those moments.

I've never slapped someone, something about the open-hand that just seems so demeaning.  I will punch you though...lol. j/j

and I've never punched anyone in the face... seems too personal.  :p

No but I have to admit that my first impulse is to punch someone in the face when they anger me LOL. I haven't done so, yet.

I have Mars.

No, I don't see me as a slapper. But I did almost beat a former boss of mine with a napkin holder. He bullied me and I hated him.

I'm afraid that if I ever crossed the line and hit someone I would have to have someone pull me off the person.

Mars in Taurus 12th house

I am sure I must have slapped someone but I don't remember when. I have hit a couple men (don't remember who) and broke my sister's nose (one punch) but other than than....  I am a very nice person.

::rolls eyes::

Usually I just tell them to get the fuck out and if I am really pissed I kick the car in the ass so they will leave faster.

Mars Mercury or Italian-ness, take your pick.

I've slapped two people, both of whom were close to me, and felt guilty afterwards. Sometimes I wish people would slap me when I'm being particularly obnoxious.

I've slapped a few people when I was younger.  I try to breathe through it now.  *lol*

When I was in junior high, being my normal little outcast self, there was a guy in my homeroom that would steal my pencil everyday and throw it across the room.  One day he did it, I went and picked it up, and when I passed him I said, "If you touch my pencil again, I will slap the shit out of you," then walked back to my seat.  Well, he immediately got up, took the pencil, and flung it.  So I picked it up, walked up to him and back-handed him HARD.  Then came back with the palm.  Knocked his glasses clear across the room, they bounced off the wall. . ..  The teacher just looked over the top of his paper, chuckled, and went back to reading.  I've never felt guilty about it.

The one that gets me, though, is the slap I never did but was expected to.  I was washing dishes and my mom was standing behind me berating me for something or other and I was just. so. fed up.  So I turned to her and raised my hand to drop the dishrag back into the water, and she flinched.  I had no intention of hitting her, but she expected it and flinched back from it...  That stuck with me.

Mars-Venus-Pluto conjunction hits everything in my chart.  I've had to do a lot of work to not have a mental image of slapping almost everyone on a daily basis.

Last time I slapped someone...

A capricorn asked me for buttsex.  So I slapped him...hard.  He didn't flinch, he didn't say a word, he remained in exactly the same position and stared at me while he processed my response.   I remember thinking his face felt cold.  After a moment of silence we went back to having conventional sex. He never brought it up again.

I've never hit anyone, slapping or punching, that has not been a blood relation, or vice versa.

One way to shut down the buttsex request: "Sure thing. You first."

One way to shut down the buttsex request: "Sure thing. You first." LMAO!

Hahahahah Neva I used to tell the guys that Sure after I do you up the backdoor then you can do me,lolol. It does shut down the asking!!

i don't remember slapping somebody. doesn't mean i haven't, though. but it would have been many years ago.

a boyfriend once slapped me across the face hard enough it knocked me off my feet and gave me a nosebleed. i would have been about 20.

wanting to slap, however, is a different question. i jokingly threaten, "don't make me slap you" but that's just my mouth.

but there are a couple of people i've actually, really, really wanted to slap and/or physically attack. always freaked me out some when i had violent impulses, as it's very inconsistent with my normal demeanor and self-image. both times, they were people who i perceived as hurting my children.

oh yeah- another mars in scorpio.

Satori this is perfect

"my mars is in scorpio, (...)  I only shoot to kill not to wound "

Another scorpio mars.

ah, goddess, what you said jarred it loose for me.  that's what I was trying to express.  I'm trying to reconcile my fantasy behavior with my behavior in real life self.  I was wondering if my fantasy behavior, if re-enacted in real life, would be as satisfying as it felt in my head.  I'm thinking not, now.

as for buttsecks, pretty much anyone who asked me for that was actually MORE interested in what you suggest, reciprocity.  100% took me up on that facetious counter-offer. 

tomaui:  :D

I was taught gun-handling as a kid.  

1.  don't point a gun at anyone unless you plan to shoot them.

2.  don't shoot anyone unless you plan to kill them. 

I think it was one of those overdramatic ways to teach a kid not to point their gun at people, but I took it very literally and seriously.  in movies/tv I'm constantly seeing people waving guns, carrying guns in such a way that were they to trip they'd shoot the people they were with, I roll my eyes.  up or down, people!  point it up or down! 

never waste good focussed energies!

I am not going to start a buttsecks thread lol even though the thought of it makes me laugh which is a good good thing

Aw, come on. Anal prosthetics and sphincter replacements for everybody! That's a party.

i think the gun advice is really good, satori, movies notwithstanding. i think will try to take the same princples into consideration with my aggressive mouth. 

  i'm not commenting on the posterior discussion.

Ive been slapped by my Mother. Twice! Both times I was a teen. I didn't deserve it. For some reason she has no patience with me but she lets the other kids walk all over her.

I slapped an ex-friend and we got in a brawl as soon as I slapped her.

I have got in physical fights with my father to protect my Mother a couple times. I remember one of those times perfectly, I was 14 years old on Christmas eve.

When I was going to punk shows as a teen, I'd do "body blows" basically punching the shit out of another person and they do the same to me. No face contact of course.

When ever I fight I rather not slap but punch. I refrain from fighting as much as possible. I have this horrible rage I just know will get me in BIG trouble. Pluto in Scorpio square Mars in Capricorn. So instead I use that Mar/Pluto energy in sports, gym, yoga, dancing anything physical or Game like.

But right now I'm fantasizing about slapping a couple of my friends that are not being nice. Of course I'd never slap them but I can think about it.

~ ponders the astrology of buttsex ~

Like some people on this thread yep- I have been slapped by my mother-

 I've also been slapped by my father and my brother (with my brother it was odd, I slapped him because he said something rude and he hit me back "I don't care if you're a girl, you hit me so I hit you!" 

Have I hit others? Oh yeah, I've hit some boys in the past (including my current one) but usually I don't hit too hard- I guess I can't avoid it with so many Mars ruled planets in my chart

 Usually I end up throwing things around instead of people- like food, inanimate objects-- then I sigh, frown and sit down to pick up whatever it is I have thrown. 

Strawberry Fields, you are Full of Win.

iv never slapped anyone nor would i want to. its extremely humiliating. i think i feel this way coz iv been slapped and beaten alot.  have kicked 2 guys really hard in the nuts though.

Instead of slapping someone I urge all to get a list of sarcastic and verbally shearing comments at the ready instead. You'll get your ass hauled into the slammer in a heartbeat these days for slapping anyone (that even includes touching) and who needs that.

The imagination is a powerful thing and I get great satisfaction from mentally beating the hell out of people that abuse or harass me in anyway.  This is best done in a relaxed state like early in the morning upon waking.

I have thrown beer in the faces of many a jerk. Don't take any crap off of anyone sexually harassing  you. And remember, the darkness level is at an all time high in our society so forewarned is forearmed. 

In sex and the city, the guy asking for buttsex would have been about the moment that "Charlotte realized that she would not have to..." and would have gotten up and walked out. I'm dumbfounded that they didn't walk out on each other at some points considering how much they walked out on all sorts of men.  I'm impressed that in real life, awkward moments like that buttsex one don't stop people from pushing through them.