Wondering this...

er, define stalking??

Just kidding...I did act way WAY obsessive with guys I fell in love with when I was younger (like, late teens). I would phone...phone again...ride my bike by their house...oh, CRINGE. Thank god there was no internet back then, I probably would have been certifiably insane. Venus/Pluto!! Guys did not like me at ALL until I hit my 20s.

Stalked the ex on facebook for a while and got bored. Not sure when I stopped caring about that, but I did. I used to use my webspidey powers to watch what my second husband was doing to see if he was going to come after me or my son -- until I caught him and he got cagey.

That's it. Fini. *But* I have been meticulous about my internect security since 1992. I always change names, locations and email addresses periodically, update passwords and I only use my credit card at one site. I also don't use facebook, because I've been in the deep web long enough to know how easy it is to have somebody's whole life open like a fan on an internet screen.

Be careful out there.

no.

i have wanted to but there is no way in HELL i would.

(though, i confess, i passed by my former Family Home - as the divorce paper called it - and noted the bedroom curtains had been shifted to the dining room. but that's different... cause i live in a small town and that street was on my way to work. meh. i started taking the longer route around. who needs that shit?)

so. no.

i hate being stalked. i have been. could not do it to someone else.

though you know... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ObuKyuEfobU

Yes I have, when Pluto was in Virgo, boy was I a pup back then. hahahahaha glad I'm all grown up now.

no, i haven't

i think today 'stalking' gets confused with being a human being with emotions too easily

stalking is a crime of pyschological terrorism, at best and premeditated violence, at worst

NOT looking at someone's public facebook page

seriously

gets thrown around wayyyyyy too much for my liking

i wish people would give themselves a damn break around these feelings

Mmm, yeah, I've behaved in ways that may be classified as stalking...

i agree with lona there's a difference between the cyber-stalking most of us tend to do and the real stalking that is a crime - real stalkers have serious psychological issues.

my older brother has a history of stalking. three people i'm aware of. one put a restraining order on him.

i wouldn't wish that on anyone! either to be stalked, or to be the stalker.

Never, never, never!  I abhor stalkers and would never behave like that myself!  I just  shudder at the  thought!

True, I've never done what dorchid is describing.

No, I never have but I seem to somehow create fantastical mist around myself that draws in stalkers.  I have had one that I eventually sent to jail (my ex).

Oh my gosh, mahchi! So scary!

Yes it was.  I left him and went into hiding.  He stalked me at work, vandalized my car and made death threats on the phone, etc.

I drove around and looked for a boyfriend I dumped once, I was 20 years old. I found him and he was really glad I did / relieved / we got back together. If this doesn't count as stalking, then like, Annalisa, I have never done it either. I think it probably has something to do with how we were raised or something that is simply embedded in our psychological makeup.

No. I was stalked. No one should go through that. Plus I don't have it in me.

I have Venus/Pluto, but it's in Virgo, and Venus is also conjunct Uranus. I'm obsessive about being detached, if anything.

The stalker ex had a Scorpio Sun conjunct Neptune. Besides that, I don't remember his birthdate or any other sign placements/aspects. I blocked it out.

I've mildly 'kept tabs on' men I've been obsessing about, even to the extent of driving or walking past their house (esp to see if they are out/away when they said they would be lol), but never actually 'stalked' anyone.  A certain degree of paranoia leads to this kind of thing, and it's just human in my view, as is FB/web checking.

I've never been stalked - I'd be terrified. It's bad enough having a guy not take no for an answer!

I can neither confirm nor deny.... but in my mind's eye , it was all about self preservation.

I love what Lona said. :)

I've "aggressively pursued" a man, not sure if that's your def. of stalking. If it is, then call me a stalker. Yeah, I break all the rules. :P