Interesting video....thoughts???

Doomed From The Start?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eFlHBQr7qv4&feature=related

What he is talking about is VERY deep...

mmm..I get what he is saying. But it's pretty generalized. For example, due my prior sexual abuse, I was the initiator. On that, he is right as far as terms of giving you a feeling of security. It was out of insecurity and the need to feel in control of the emotional situation that made me the agressor like he said. I understand what he is saying about the dynamics. But, to be honest, he isn't really good at articulating it. He could have made his point in about 10 sentences..but..anyway.

I mostly agree with what he's saying, but the thing is men chase women more than women chase men, just go to a bar and you'll see. Now I as a woman cannot accept the advances of all the men that come on to me, because I simply can't like all of them. I have every right to be picky. I have no choice but to turn them down.

And I have been in a lot of awkward situations because the guy just went for it without even checking if the air is clear so to say. I prefer men who look for signals, no matter how hard it is for them to discern them.

Yeah, I did get some insight into things from a male perspective, although to me, he seemed pretty emotional about it as he was talking.  He does have a good point about the sun/moon thing....

"Try being a man and dealing with women and the amount of rejection that you get..."

so true!

I am still watching it.. quite long!

At 11:00 minutes, when he talks about women being the aggressor, because they are not comfortable with their feminine receptivity:

"If you start a relationship and help him along... Guess what, he's not going to be bonded to you and love you the way you want."

Agree! I've pushed relationships along only to realize he's just not that into me :(