I recently joined this site and posted my first post about a Capricorn man I've been seeing.  I was so stunned when he ended our relationship via text, out of the blue, then acted like it had never happened. We have since sorted out our fears and phobias and feelings and move into a new house at the end of the year.

During this period - I also joined another board and I was quite blown away by one opinion on there and thought I would share it with you:

I really dislike Cancers .... seriously.

If you pay attention in here you will see that they are all like this woman here.

They abuse other people all the time .... and then act like it's a catastrophe if their feelings get hurt.

We ignore people like that around here (trolls) and they go away.

ps - welcome MissBizarre

Thank you Elsa :)

The same person also said :

What a treetrunking cookiemonster .... I hope he finds a real woman, one who knows what love is.

I don't even know what a treetrunking cookiemonster is!!  Laughing.

I'm sure a lot of people dislike the cancers, especially the ones who've been diagnosed with it or lost a loved one to it. It's a terrible disease.

If they meant the astrological sign Cancer, though, then that's a pretty immature attitude to take. 

Just someone who wants attention...

Well, we all have our issues.

I have a Cancer sister, so that is kinda offensive to me.

Not extremely offensive, but lightly so!

Toni, I have come to the conclusion you are the sanest one on here.

Haha, trust me Elsa, if you met me 3 years ago, you would've changed your mind.

I was literally crazy 3 years ago, but never went to a psychologists/psychiatrist or mental asylum. All this insanity was because of Pluto in Sagittarius. And I think you know I am a Sagittarius by the way!

What's weird was that at the time, I didn't know I was insane. 

Toni, I'll take your word for that. I was a wreck in the early 90's when all those planets stacked up in Capricorn. You can't count people out, can you?

"I really dislike Cancers, seriously."

That is AWESOME. Ooga booga booga! Awful nasty Cancer! XD 

It's so dumb as to be high comedy. Worth it to be hated just for the entertainment value! 

Speaking of entertainment value, "Not extremely offensive, but lightly so!" is right up there too, but not because it's dumb. Quite the opposite.  

I just want you all to know that I'm crying right now.

::sniffs::

right on, Neva.  you know what I found surprising, I don't think I've ever heard anyone slag off cancer.  not what you'd necessarilly expect, you know?

kinda like the father in "So I Married An Axe Murderer":  "I hate the Colonel, with his wee beady eyes...  'oooooooooh, you're gonna buy my chicken!' " 

I call em "squishies" :P

And don't rule them out - when the cardinals fight in the tranits coming we'll be running home to mom who will be the only sane one left.

ha ha liz my bff is a cancer and she calls me "squishie" as a pet name:)

LOL LOL LOL! I love the effing internet, its like neptune took mercury, tore him up into a million pieces and stuffed him in a bingo cage...  Treetrunking Cookiemonster! Bingo!

You've probably only encountered insecure cancers that haven't had their needs met :P

Feed them a cookie.  Feed me a cookie while you're at it.

Cancers are abusive? Lol-and I think all abusive people are offended when their own feelings are hurt.

haha notatirem

Somebody's bitter.

I HAVE met an emotionally manipulative Cancer, but I have also met non-abusive ones. Strangely, we're like instant best friends.

Damn those squishy treetrunking cookiemonsters.

All signs are annoying in their own way. As much as I like to complain about Pisces (somehow whatever kind of relationship-this include platonic-ends in a big mess), I've realized part of bad experiences had to do with how my Venus and Sun aspect Neptune and Uranus, and that I often wear rose tinted glasses when it comes to people I want to like-and they're not all just Pisces, and I do tend to be attracted to people with issues... to put it mildly. 

I think you need to look at the aspect and placements in your chart, and think about the patterns of how you have managed to relate-or not-with other people, and what attracted you (and I'm not speaking of the sexual sense) to certain types before it ended badly.

In addition-

I have a soft spot for Cancers, which I blame fully on Anthony Bourdain. If I could find an emotional man who speaks his mind (I suspect he might have Sagittarius rising) and loves to cook, I'd be in heaven.