I have been interested in two men in my life who almost share a b-day! (their charts are very similar).

There was something like a decade between when this happened.

Has anyone else experienced that and what does it mean?

Ha ha, I have written about this before. If I met someone with my birthdate, i would run for the hills! I did interact with the soldier's astro twin  in the gym for a number of months some years ago and boy, that was a trip.  It was about the same time someone new moved in next door with a dog named, "Soldier". :)

I dated a guy with my birthday, he was born a year later.  Nice guy.  Didn't last.  I also dated a guy 4 days younger than me.  That was a not so great relationship.  I don't like to admit this, but it kind of turned me off to my own sun sign as potential partners.  Good or bad?  I don't know!

I had a very close best friend for a number of years and later ended up meeting someone born one day after her, in a different year. Threw me for a loop, I forgot why it was so nice to be a FRIEND rather than in a relationship with a moody cancer. :/

Also, the cow-orker that's giving me the most trouble at work shares a birthday with me and my freaking god, are we like oil and water. She feeds of drama where as I want to come in, do my work, and go home; leave me alone and keep me OUT OF IT.