You ladies are fabulous, thanks! :)

I do take time for myself when needed. I guess you can say I'm still caught between two personalities: the old Lunalie and the new Lunalie. It's just a matter of getting used to the new one, I guess, as... wow... A LOT has really changed.

I'm doing downtime now and I'm going to experiment with clothes :D I have a 5th house Mars in Leo so I guess it's only natural :) 

kashmiri, thank you for that advice. Being a Pisces Rising, I need downtime once in a while! I feel so ashamed about the downtime, but now I learned I need to care for me!

I should have responded to this when I saw it a week ago.  I have a natal moon in Cancer.  I suppose I didn't  respond because I wasn't in the mood.  That's how my Cancer moon works.  I like to think I'm not emotional, but I am moody.  I always feel better when the moon is in Cap, my natal sun sign.  

My sister also has Cancer moon and she's very emotional.  Maybe the comparison to her is why I think I'm more in control.   Our dad also had a moon in Cancer.  

I need a lot of time to myself.  I pick up other's emotions around me too easily.  I need time to release it and feel myself.  That's how I work it.