I am probably overthinking and being paranoid (I love you, Pluto! *sarcasm*) but anyway...

Pluto is transiting both my partner and I. Pluto is transiting my Sun and his, Venus in Libra in 6th. He has a Libra stellium (Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Saturn, Pluto) so you could imagine - he likes everything harmonious.

We both got together at a time where both of us are in the very beginning of these transits (when Pluto first went to Capricorn). We've known each other much longer.

Anyway - I've been reading things about Pluto squaring Venus - that relationships formed at this time are likely to have power struggles - or that his view of relationships may change. Also, there might be a lot of manipulation, jealousy, possessiveness.

Enter me - going through a Pluto squaring Sun transit. Natal Pluto is in my 7th house, with the chart ruler, Venus in my 2nd house in Taurus. It's squaring my Mars and my Uranus. Right now, I'm going through deep deep deep issues about my identity and myself. My insecurities are brought to surface and I already think that for me to stop being jealous/insecure (7th house projects), I really really REALLY have to work on myself - fix myself, if I must. 

I feel bad for him to having to deal with me. I feel bad that I am this big bad evil person - this Pluto person in his life that may drive him away. It's already hard enough that I'm going through sooo much and for him to have a broken person like me around - it's just not fair! I feel really scared of losing him because for once, I have a great guy and WHY did we have to get together in a Pluto square transit?

Do people who get together during this transit necessarily break up?  I really am tryin my best to be the best person I can be but gosh, this is HELL!

You know, that's a good question-

I myself thought after I got together with my current boyfriend under my 2nd major Pluto squaring my Sun transit that I would never again try to hook up with a guy under this transit--

It felt like we were constantly "at war" somehow power struggle wise but then it just felt ike my own struggle in my head? I don't know how to describe it, but right before I met him I started getting MAJOR panic attacks for the first time in my life (Pluto transiting over the cusp of my 4th squaring my 8th house Sun, Sun rules my 12th house)--

*hugs* I wouldn't put yourself so down though dear, he's with you for a reason I think :) I thought the same thing and still sometimes think it... I'm personally very Plutonian (Pluto in apex of a DoubleYod, full 8th house) and I think I can cause a lot of trouble for him too but he wants to be with me so. 

Hey Lunalie!

I've been having Pluto on my Cap Saturn (still is) and now embarking on a square to my Sun, N.Node, Mars, Merc in Libra (among other significant transits)... while also dealing with being in a new relationship. It's an interesting ride for sure, and not for a faint of heart partner! Fortunately, mine has strong Taurus and her groundedness and steadfastness is counterbalancing Pluto's swinging wrecking ball.

Natal Pluto conjunct Venus in my 7H. Natal Uranus also in 7H.

"Do people who get together during this transit necessarily break up?  I really am tryin my best to be the best person I can be but gosh, this is HELL!"

We've been breaking up and making up on a regular basis for a year now, but come Saturday, we're celebrating our one-year anniversary.

Are we done breaking up and making up? I suspect not. But it doesn't matter. We are MOVING FORWARD. And both of us are GROWING like hell. Being transformed.

I have years before transiting Pluto finishes squaring my stellium. We're braced.