Okay, peeps, potentially embarrassing question but it's burning my butt and I have to ask a wider network, because I've polled my ftf peeps for years and no dice.  I know there are people here who don't mind discussing the nitty-gritty aspects of sexuality, so I hope I'm not out of line.  Here goes *holds breath*:

Have you ever had some lovin', then minutes/hours/days later get "aftershocks" (frissons or twitches of remembered sensation)?  I'm curious because I'm the only person I've ever known that does this; my friends and partners have never admitted to knowing anyone else that does this, either.  I know plenty of people that twitch around like this for a few minutes immediately after orgasm, but no one else who's done this for more than a half-hour, let alone two days later.  Anyone else out there a freak of nature? 

I'ma add a poll, so y'all can answer anonymously.  Sorry if I've offended anyone.

Lol SaDiablo...

What the heck, I'll participate in this poll!  I have exprerienced afterschocks, though sadly, it's a rare cosmic event.   :)

Yay, maureen!!  *happydance*  I'm so glad someone answered, let alone answered yes!    I heart you so much right now.  Yay, another weirdo! 

LOL

I think this is an extremely positive thread.  The fact that you are responding sexually (which has alot to do with spirituality) in ways unlike others around you is very good.  We are capable of much more peace, pleasure and enlightenment than we can imagine even exists.  How nice to know people are tapping into those ways, and raising the vibration frequency for all of us in doing so.

(was a double post)

Sexuality if such a natural/normal part of being human! - I have known my husband for about 27 years, and people will still tell us some time to "get a room", lol.  It is such a vital part of a relationship, and I think it it fades, the relationship has a high chance of failing.  And yes, I have experienced this, and I still look at my husband still makes my heart skip a beat.

I've never had aftershocks days later, but I can orgasm up to...damn....20 times in one session. I know what I need to do to get my body there and what to ask of my partner to achieve it, which is a huge help.

Curious about the astrology of this. Where are people's Mars (sign & house) and what planets aspect it?

Haven't experienced this myself but my Mars in Scorpio is in the 12th conjunct Mercury inconjunct Uranus. comfortable with sexuality but very private.

The mind is the most important sexual organ, IMO. If your thoughts go back there, then it will recall the experience, as it were. Well, that's how it works for me. YMMV.

I have Mars in Sag in the 3rd conjunct Neptune in Scorpio, sextile Jup/Ur, trine Moon and Sun and Chiron, opposing Venus.

You CANNOT offend an Aries like me (unless lying,cheating, stealing is involved) har har :)

I am a bit like Neva, just thinking of a past orgasm or sensual scenario can bring an orgasm while I'm alone without even touching myself, just thinking and I swear it's real...and very cool But I absolutely must be in love with the man I'm thinking about. 

Capi Venus opp cancer mars trine scorp mercury opp taurus moon, it's a rectangle...

I have had spontaneous orgasms brought on by the memory of a man's smell.

You are in heat.  Your body wants a baby.  It doesn't give a shit what your mind wants. That vibrating in your pelvis is the pleasurable sensation of your body reminding you that it is empty.

luci... when you say "20 in a session" how long is the session and how many minutes in between each O, how big is each one on the orgasm richter scale, etc.?

I really don't think I've ever been multi. The closest would have been doing it once, waiting about 15 minutes or so and then doing it again. The second time is a lot more work though.

SaDiablo, it's hard to know what you mean by "aftershocks." I've had an awesome, mind blowing orgasm/session, thought about it later and then felt a very strong BWANGGG kinda craving in my loins while recalling the joyous event.

But have I actually orgasmed or partially orgasmed during recall? Well, I'd have to say no. 

Although I can have one "hands free" but it takes a while and quite a bit of concentration. So that's a nifty trick.

Libra Mars conjunct Mercury and Sun. Scorpio Moon. Virgo rising and Venus, which I'm told makes me "full of tension." I'm generally horny all the time, and apparently so are you people - ha!

If it's a 1/2 hour to an hour, I can have three or four without a sweat. If we're long and drawn out and taking our time, is when the count gets up to where I lose track. I've gotten to a point so heated that simply blowing hot breath on my privates caused an orgasm. It was surreal.

They're fairly good ones as far as intensity - I enjoy it at least. Not hard, shuddering, earth shaking ones, though I can have those, too. 

If the sex is really good, my fingers and hands go numb. I assume it's all the blood rushing away from the top of my body to the bottom. :D 

Well, shit, girl, that is an impressive track record. Are we talking with THIS man only, or with others who you've been with as well?

Because if it's this guy in particular that is giving you these 20 some-odd orgasm sessions... I'd say he's a keeper!! 

Numbness in the extremities... weird! 

I'm pretty happy with the big bang the way I have it. My lover is a good fella. :)

I can think an orgasm like xglop explained

Mars in Taurus conjunct Gemini sun/mercury

No, it's not just with this guy that I have multiples. Like I said, I know what does it for me, and how to make it happen! If the GUY isn't making it happen, I don't mind going "TO THE LEFT!" or "DO THIS NOW!"

However, I will concede that Mr Gemini was the one that only had to breath to make it happen. Heh.

"it's hard to know what you mean by 'aftershocks.' I've had an awesome, mind blowing orgasm/session, thought about it later and then felt a very strong BWANGGG kinda craving in my loins while recalling the joyous event."

It's not a craving and not a complete orgasm.  The reason I use the term aftershock is because it is jolting for me, a memory of sensation so strong (even when I'm not thinking about it) that makes me jump (or whatever, depending on company), and like someone up there mentioned it's so real you'd swear you're being touched.  A split-second, powerful physical memory.  It's... odd.  Pleasant, but odd.  *laughs*

"I can orgasm up to...damn....20 times in one session."

Oh, yeah, been there!  If I can't get off at least four times in fifteen minutes, something is very, very wrong.    One of my partners was very much into seeing just how many times he could bring me, and I used to have to tell him to stop.  *laughs*  "No more!  Get off and get the fuck off me, I'm TIRED." 

"Where are people's Mars (sign & house) and what planets aspect it?"

Mars in 4th, conjunct Venus and Pluto, trine Moon, sextile Neptune, and a bunch of semi-squares and whatnot.  That conjunction literally hits everything in my chart.

Forgot to say:

"You CANNOT offend an Aries like me "

Thanks, Lunalie!  If it was "just us shiny chickens" that've been here a while, I wouldn't have worried about offending anyone.  There's a lot of new faces, though, and I didn't want to cross that line.  Yanno?  *BIG grin*

Oh my God, it just occurred to me that five people voted they've never had an orgasm.

Can we offer some tips?

Someone else go first...

I remember the first orgasm I ever had when I was a little kid, I had NO IDEA what was going on, I thought I had given myself a heart attack.

I had to revive this thread just to express the pure joy I have received from reading Notatirem's comment: "I remember the first orgasm I ever had when I was a little kid, I had NO IDEA what was going on, I thought I had given myself a heart attack."

Too funny.  Made my sick day a little bit better.

On the other hand, I've never had any of these aftershocks... But I can imagine it might not be so bad. ;) 

Hope you feel better Ro.

Thank you, Jilly :)

Been there, done that, not sharing details :P

Been there, done that, not sharing details :P

 Oh, do share please.

I completely agree with Anonymous.  Orgasms are spiritual.  If your consciousness is fully aware of the energy you send out to the universe everytime you have one, then you have power wherever and whenever you want it.

I'd say don't waste away your orgasmic states just for the physical pleasure of it.  Direct those waves of energy into manifesting your innermost desires.

Watch what happens afterwards.

Well... yes. I've also had "electrical" orgasms that snap and crackle, if you can imagine it.

I can think myself into an orgasm with no other stimulation. I'm also pretty good at phone sex.  I think I would really shine as a tantrika. (Must learn more about that!)

(Moon/Venus in Scorpio, Neptune/5th in Scorpio, Mercury/5th)

This thread makes me happy.

Aftershocks, hell yeah. By myself even. Except when I'm depressed. With guys, that and multi, in few relationships. It's lust and real love mixing with the body's chemical love and spiritual love. The multi can become a thousand petals lotus blooming forever, a continuous stream of energy, heavens, that's rare. Just kissing can do it. Also happened once under the sun, while just sitting there by myself on a rock in a mountain. The warmth of the sun, the breeze, the scents and then that.

Mars in Aries, Venus in Taurus. 

Thanks for posting this and for all your replies, I've been really down and under lately;  this really cheers me up!

Great topic...not offensive at all.I have Mars in Cancer in the 8th conjunct Moon/Jupiter in Cancer and sextile Venus in Virgo. Sex is emotional for me.As far as multiples go...I haven't...yet. But orgasms are pretty regular. They do tend to take up all my energy and I actually think I suppress their intensity somewhat.

On the deeply personal side, I can also think up orgasms with concentration. It helps if I am having my monthly ' in heat' time. Another thing is I can channel chi  between my mouth and my privates and then...BOOM!!! It happened spontaneously when I was meditating one day and I kept it a secret because I felt weird. Sometimes I will literally feel the sensation pulsing down there and have to fight it back if I am in public.Another thing...I can come by nipple stimulation solely.

Hey Y'all,

Yep, aftershocks or pulsating to be blunt.  All I have to do is think thoughts about a person in particular in remembrance of our last encounter and it happens.  I LOVE it!

Offensive, no way!