Hi All.

I have done much research on this , but just wanted to see if anyone knew or had any other insights about the Progressed Moon and Black Moon Lilith Being Conjunct in Virgo and in the 8th House.

I'm sensing alot of psychic, chord cutting, severing ties with family in my not to distant future.

Anyone?

The reason I put this out there is because i'm thinking of making a rather dramatic move, if / when things get too pressurized with my parents.

Having a relationship with them is so conditional, everything is measured.

The sense that I get quite strongly, is that they feel at a basic(albeit wounded level) the following:

What can you do for me? NEver mind who you are, just tell me what you can do, what are your uses, what are you successful at? Nothing? Well then you have no use for us.

Both my older sister and I have realised that this is how our parents operate. We both agree, my mom might have medium npd (narcissistic personality disorder) tendancies. And that my dad is the enabler to a large extent. The medium of control has always been money. 

Growing up we were never given an allowance, and never saw our friends on the weekends. Until much later, as in highschool, we realised the social aspect was very important.