I'm sure this has been discussed before, but for those of us who are new here and others who just can't get enough!

I'm currently voting for SCORPIOS and TAUREANS! I might say Taureans are better but I'm currently with a Scorpio so I am biased!

Btw, I can only speak for men. Does this usually apply for men/women when we talk about signs? I hear Virgo women are Excellent!  (said the Virgo!)

I've been with piss-poor lovers of almost every sign.  *shrugs*  Sometimes I think it's more how their Mars-Venus hits you than their sun sign...  Of course, maybe it's one of the asteroids, like Eris, that I have no clue about.  *lol*

The best lover (male) I had was Libra Sun, Virgo Moon, Mars-Venus-Uranus in Scorp.  Second best (male) was Scorp Sun conjunct Sag Venus, Pisces Moon, Mars-Uranus-Pluto in Virgo.  Third (female) was Gem Sun, Taurus Moon, Venus-Jupiter in Cancer, Mars-Saturn in Leo.

Personally, I've always gotten complimented, verbally and otherwise.  I've helped people who couldn't orgasm to reach multiples, had people who had never orgasmed from a particular act with anyone else reach completion with me, had one person do the transformative crying thing after we were through (I was the first after her abuse), blah blah blah.  Yeah, I'm a sex goddess.  *rolls eyes, laughing*  Leo Sun, Aqua Moon, and a Mars-Venus-Pluto conjunction in Libra that hits my whole chart.

hahaha! I wish I had remembered everyone's sign! It seems many were Taurus though! Esp my more serious ones--at least the notable ones. Yeah, it probably is more complicated than just the sun sign. It would be interesting to take a poll--I would have created one if I knew how.

Since you brought up the whole orgasm thing...that actually ties into my post on waiting around for people who are late. I would have said "Adios" to Senior Scorpio long ago, but he is THE ONLY man who can make me orgasm vaginally EVER! He can last SO damn long! LOL! So, it's my dignity or....ahem. So when Elsa said "I'd give him the boot..." She didn't know all that was at stake! Maybe she will read this and understand. Hopefully no one will say get a vibrator--it is NOT the same! Sigh! The guy has me whipped and he knows it!

Like you Sa Diablo, I'm good too. He just has this edge over me.

I don't remember their charts, except for Mr. Libra.  I have it all saved on AstroDienst. 

I hear you on the orgasm thing, Vespa!  Although I've always been demonstrative, the sex with Mr. Libra was mind-blowing.  He was the first partner to give me vaginal orgasms, too, plus multiples, ejaculations, and on and on.  But what I learned since we split is that I don't need him for any of it!  He may have been the first, but Pandora opened that box (ha!) and now I have the key.  If non-sexual things with Mr. Scorpio aren't satisfying, then it's not worth sticking around for.  Sex is just sex and you can get it almost anywhere; it's the less tangible qualities that are harder to find and worth compromising for.

Not to preach. 

Sigh. I do know you're right. And it probably is a good thing that right now I need to be on the east coast AWAY from Mr. Scorpio and his hour long-lasting self. (Viagara-poppers, eat your heart out!) I'm just pining away for him--hanging out with the Libra FRIEND/ex-boyrfrend a bit (but not tempted at all). Though, before I left CA, Mr. Scorpio did accuse me of going back to the ex (ie planning to cheat. He is convinced I will). If he only knew.

As I told Mr. Scorpio, "Please, just let our love die a natural death." It's just not happening fast enough! I've been through this all before so many times, yet I have to go through it every time.

I am cursed with Saturn in the 7th!

Do not know all of the astro on my lovers..here is what I DO know though.

Libra: Incredibly attentive, gave all for me and I believe if I gave ZERO in return he still would have been hugely fullfilled. Dervies great pleasure in the pleasuring of another.

Pisces: Not great. Seemed like he was always off wandering mentally..just swimming with the fishes or fantasizing about someone else maybe, lol. I like the 100% intensity of full connection and am very 'be here now and fully present with me" ..this just didn't work for me.

Leo: Well..I have a Leo Venus..so, between us a bit of, "do me..no, do me..no, me first"..but FIRE, oh yes, a whole lotta fire! :)

Sagittarius: Married to for a really, LONG time. Divorce 5 yrs past..he still tells everyone I was THE BOMB..goodness, for me..our intimacy was just a bomb. It is sad really..I understand my workings much better now than then..should have left go of that relationship much sooner, for both of us.

I am a Virg/Double Gem, Leo Venus, Sag Mars..so I suppose what really fires me is the whole package of someone who knows how to talk it and walk it with huge bravado and expansion??? OH my...finding THAT may be a bit difficult...so I will just continue to remember to focus on the other wonderful attributes of future lovers/lover.

this seems to me to be specific between the people and their charts, that there is no objective standard. But i can say that a certain mars in aries has tremendous staying power yet begins things awfully awfully fast and that annoys me. He is a cancer sun though so i can get lots of nurturing too. I have mars in cancer, so i prefer a nurturing lover... Someone who recognizes the spiritual/transformative nature of physical closeness is the best lover to me, no matter the sign. and i don't mean tantric sex or some other buzzword but true depth and intimacy. 

The worst lover to me is one who is shallow or has some pre-decided set of "moves" to use on you. I recently had a conversation like this with someone, a scorpio, and he was telling me about all the stuff he does -- one set of stuff for a girl he loves and a different set of stuff for a girl he doesn't love. And i was thinking: ugh yuck ew -- how can you plan it out like that? At this very moment, i feel like i've had enough sex for a lifetime -- which means, i guess, that my sex life has been hollow. Time for something much much much deeper. 

sadiablio said :

"Of course, maybe it's one of the asteroids, like Eris, that I have no clue about.  *lol*"

i'm very interrested by asteroids, here is a link for Eris :

http://www.planetwaves.net/smallworlds/free/eris.html

Vesta is also interresting, it has to do with sort of "good sex learning to practice" well it's hard to explain (i'm french) and Eros is the most potent for erotic energy you guess it...

Depending on vesta's placement and figures, whether you can be a "sex worker" or a "nun"...lot's of sex worker have prominent vesta (keeper of sacred fire)

Moonpluto

That man is horrible ! The fact is lot's of men are like that, it's hard to understand for a woman especially with mars in cancer like me and you...

I found that with that cancer mars I oblige myself to look at where my partners mars is, before having big clashes or great deceptions. Pisces was ok and taurus also, aris mars is simply not possible

I have vesta conjunct my ascendant.... I feel like I am a combination of sex worker/nun and heading more into the nunnnery!!

SCORPIO!!!

... Ok bias :P

Hehehhe!

No really, Scorpio sun, Moon in Leo, Mars in Sag., Venus in Libra. :) That's my man :) 

I read somewhere that men with Jupiter in the 5th make the best lovers. Or at least make them lotharios.

Moonpluto

So perhaps the mythology of the vestals could please you...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vestal_Virgin

When I read that story I wanted to be one...have vesta conjunct sun !

Aries: You are cute as hell, but I don't train newbs, move along.

Taurus: You are able bodied but unrefined.  I know this is the quality that most women find irresistible in you, go find one of them.  

Gemini: When is it my turn to be tied up, oh I see...

Cancer: xoxoxo <3 <3 <3 Lets just cuddle and reminisce about that time we made love. (My high school boyfriend was a cancer, oh memories.)

Leo: "Yeah I knew you'd like that move, most women do." Did you seriously just say that?

Virgo: Never bagged one of these chiseld bastards.  One time while heavily intoxicated I ended up with a virgo girl. When it became apparent that I was unable to reach orgasm she climbed on top of me and shouted at me to pretend she had a dick.  "Ooh, can you feel my big hard dick?" "See that's the problem honey, I can't."

Libra: The softness of your skin, the silkiness of your hair, the sparkle of your eyes.  I could objectify you all day.

Scorpio:  I opened my eyes momentarily as a passing light graced your countenance.  You looked like a surgeon preforming a life saving operation.  As my hips quaked all I could think over and over again was "sex genius, sex genius, sex genius."

Sagittarius: Again unrefined, but this time I don't mind cause its a thrill ride.

Capricorn: You are hard, nice and hard. I think you are controlling my mind, I want to do strange dark things with you.

Aquarius: I have never been in an argument about a magazine article with anyone else during sex.

Pisces: I had so many dreams about you before we ever got together, it just didn't measure up. 

~notatirem~

>>snickering and choking on my tea here<<<

Virgo sun here.....

After being doomed to Virgos (efficient but no passion)...and bored with Cancers (too much cuddling for my sag taste)..I came across a Libra Sun, Virgo Moon, and Scorpio Venus...might as well have died after him. Incredibly passionate and aimed to please, never got bored...gorgeous guy, very attentive and romantic. What an intense ride. Turns out we only knew how to tolerate eachother intimately.

I'm still trying to pick myself up after that break up. ugh.

WhosThatLady--

One of my FA-VOR-ITE songs and videos ever! =)

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vieG7YGtytk&feature=related

I'm guessing that's where you got your screen name from??

Arie- Love

Taurus- Sex

Gemini- Like

Cancer- Sex

Leo-Love

Virgo-Love

Libra-Like

Scorpio-Love

Sags- Sex

Cap- Too cold

Aquarius- Intellectually stimulating, but we can only be friends!

Pisces- Like

I'm a Sagittarius by the way.

Shell - LOVED That video. Haha...honestly the name popped out of my subconscious when picking one for the board. I tend to have friends tell me their friends or coworkers, or whoever, asks who I am all the time. If fits my public image...mysterious, a tad glamorous...eccentric.  Back to the song...it's been also popping up on my iPod lately! ha

Oh, notatirem, how I love you so!