My husband found out someone betrayed him, 15 years ago. He recently confronted them.

"I like how you sat on that all this time," I said. "That was some fine timing, I play cards myself."

He laughed.

"It was a joy to see your fine play. It was appreciated, I loved it."

So wait, he's known about it for 15yrs?  That would be one impressive play to see then!  Gotta admire scorp,
Angie

Wow. When I find out it's like.... I gotta expose it NOW. Sag Moon for ya.

Definitely amazing to know that for so long and then deal at the right time.

That is impressive. I could never wait that long. I would die.

LOL, Caroline
Angie

I couldn't wait that long either, my Virgo moon would worry me into a nervous mess. I'd be cautious about the timing, but it would surely be sooner rather than later.

Yay, as a fellow Scorpio Moon, things like this put a smile on my face

Never ever mess with a Scorpio Moon (or/and someone with Moon in a tense contact to Pluto, or/and 8th house). It'll come to haunt you!

Yeah he knew. It just didn't behoove him to say anything (until now). I do this all the time, myself. Information is power and you don't necessarily want to share it to someone who is or has screwed you over.

I also will wait to take my shot when I am betrayed by someone. I have great patience when it comes to this and believe it should be served cold if  you know what I mean. I don't like to act on emotion and like to let it clear before  I take any action against a person who has betrayed me or burned me in some way. You better believe I will find my shot though...  I've been trained by the masters!

Me too. There's something almost zen in that moment when everything aligns.

"Ohhh. Yes. Thank you" and then, "Excuse me. This knife I have here. I believe it once was yours?"

Elsa: I do this all the time, myself. Information is power and you don't necessarily want to share it to someone who is or has screwed you over.

Yep me too. Sometimes I don't ever divulge - but if I do confront, I wait for a moment it will have maximum impact, however long that takes....

Moon sq Pluto, trine Merc; Mars conj Saturn...  BML in Scorp

If there is nothing to be gained, there is no reason to say anything.  Also, guilt eats some people live.

I would say that I confront people over a trespass less then 20% of the time.  I have Libra! 

My husband is an exception though, he'd be the first to tell you. I confront him 100% of the time!

Good point. I have Libra too...  That's what's kept me stumm this last week lol! Got to be the hostess with the mostest, at all costs 

To this day, when somebody repeats a joke I said but says it louder, I say, "Did you really just Aaron McCoy me!?

(Back in the 2nd grade this lil punk kid would always steal my jokes and repeat them at a higher decibel)

Moon-Pluto cj in Scorpio

I'll give you an example of this. There are several people I have kicked off this blog that pretend they are innocent and I am some kind of whatever...banshee. In reality, no one has ever been tossed out of here without a very good reason, even it the reason is not apparent.

I allow these to run around with their bullshit because I figure, if a person (around here) can't see my quality and my credibility, what's the use?  But if any of these people decide to take me on directly (rather than worm-like), I assure you I have ample evidence I could expose that would embarrass them beyond measure. They know it. That's why they stay underground. 

I do this because I'm kind but I don't expect anyone to believe that.

Matter of fact, yesterday or maybe it was Thursday, I wrote one of the gals who used to post here, who I liked a lot. There is really no one like her and I had no idea why she quit posting but I decided to mail her.

She mailed me back (friendly) and she mentioned someone I had kicked off these boards. I thought about telling her the back story, but realized she didn't ask so I just let it go. I don't like to talk behind people's back's is why.  Nothing is a good thing to say, especially if no one wants to know.

Elsa: "Nothing is a good thing to say, especially if no one wants to know"

I'd agree with that, hands down!  I can hold stuff for years, it's my elephant's memory (as the hubs & little ones call it).  I won't hold it against the person, though I'll be thoroughly careful around them.  I also don't have to use what I know, it's up to me, as I can also transcend it and move on, without anyone knowing.  I usually just choose to have a really good defense with it rather than start stuff ;)
Angie