I live with a military tactician, probably one of the best in the world.

Consequently, I'm unnerved.

your turn!

I live alone, so...

But if I lived with a military I would rather feel sort of safe and protected, not unnerved...

Has it really something to do with his job?

No,  I do worry about that (his safety in the job) too. But I mean his read / interpretation of the news ala "What is Putin thinking?" I'll ask. Or, "What will be the result of x, y or z?"

He'll answer questions like that with obvious depth of knowledge that is breathtaking but his answers... well... they unnerve a person to say the least.  

 So I am acknowledging this impact on me.

My Capricorn Sun, Gemini ASC partner moved out and my Gemini Sun, Capricorn ASC friend moved in. 

He was a fair bit older than me; she's a fair bit younger than me.

She is a vegan so the cheese and ice cream is always safe. Taurus loves this bit. 

Currently my progressed Sun (and natal Jupiter) is in 5th H/Gemini so I always need a little Gemini in my day from falling into a funk.

PS. It's nice living with a female again...the toilet seat's always down. I forgot what that was like. 

Hi Kash, I am happy to see you!

I live with a four-year-old super-happy Sagittarius, and the result is that I wake up earlier in the morning, laugh more, play more make-believe games, and play disciplinarian more than I would otherwise.

I live with a crazy Aquarius world travelling musician currently working as a computer sales supervisor.  My life is a little bit more surreal than it would be without him.  I also have a 7 year old Cap/Aq cusper and a 16 yo Aq moon daughter.  It would be an understatement to say my world is quirky.

(((Toni)))

So sorry. :(

Thank you soooo much Elsa!

My mom is a Leo with Aries Rising so she is bossy as heck. I am a Sag and want to be free, but she keeps trying to control me. Plus her Moon in Cancer makes her want even more control!

My dad is an Aquarian who loves me, but doesn't understand that my mother has said some very hurtful things to me. He doesn't listen because he thinks I'm an egomaniac, but the thing is I'm just hurt. The thing is his detached Aquarian isn't giving me the understanding I need, it feels robotic and sometimes even cold. Though I know he loves me I need expression, not detachment.

i cry myself to sleep 2-3 times a week and I dont live with anyone

No current roomate, but my studio apartment adjoins another studio apartment so it's kind of like having a roomate. When she smokes or burns incense, I inhale it. Anyway, i haven't figured her out yet. I konw she is a Leo but that's all i know... She presents smiley, sweet, friendly, but I've seen there is more underneath that-- I'm guessing her as Sag rising or even Libra. Maybe double Leo... She's very cute.....

As for affect on me... hmmm.... i keep needing to control her behavior. Not smoke inside, not play loud music, etc.... Whatever she does (when she's home) affects me greatly. But I think this isn't quite the question that was asked.

My hub is a Virgo rising, Aries Sun, Cancer moon. I am learning to put things back where they "should" go,lol, and am focusing more on saving then just on the moment,lo.

I also have an 11 year old Cancer rising, Libra Sun, Pices moon daughter. I am always learning Patience,lol. and that I am dumb as a post,lol.

And finally I have a Leo Rising, Cancer Sun, and Leo moon 16 month old son. I am learning to slow down and enjoy, laugh and give and get lots of hugs.

Forgot to mention I am Gemini rising, Gemini Sun, with Aquarius Moon.

i live in a dorm room with a pisces who doesn't talk or leave the room. the tv is always on playing something mind dulling. consequently, i'm on my guard most of the time and constantly in search of a makeshift home away from home.

Still living with my mom, the Gemini, whose birth time is unknown.  Mainly I have no privacy since we both work night shifts and have some of the same days off and it's killing me.  Plus her constant rearranging of furniture just completely does something to my head.  So I'm on edge and irritable most times because I want quiet, stability, and for my shit to stay where I leave it, and she wants to talk at the person in the house (or very loudly on the phone right next to me), work out her anxiety by moving everything in the house, and ignore the boundaries I set (like "Rearrange the downstairs all you want, but leave my room alone").

I live with a seven year old Pisces. Sun conjunct Uranus in Aquarius.  Oh, and Neptune conjunct Mercury in Aquarius.

I am puzzled, enthralled and feel loved for the first time ever.

I live with my parents, my mum is a Virgo and my dad is an Aquarian born on the same day as me 7th Feb. My brother is 16, he's a Leo. 

Aquarius husband (but he has alot of Capricorn - born on cusp).  

He mostly brings stability, and calm, but can still make those "uranian" announcements, like, "Hey, I am starting flying lessons tomorrow!"

Libra son - (moon pisces, leo rising) - always contributes peacefulness - always playing some instrument or the other.

Saggitarius daughter (moon aries, taurus rising) - leo rules her 4th, and boy does this household revolve around her.  Of course alot has to do with her disability, but she definitely has that in your face sagittarius/aries thing going on, and she is the boss of us all.

Aquarius husband (but he has alot of Capricorn - born on cusp).  

He mostly brings stability, and calm, but can still make those "uranian" announcements, like, "Hey, I am starting flying lessons tomorrow!"

Libra son - (moon pisces, leo rising) - always contributes peacefulness - always playing some instrument or the other.

Saggitarius daughter (moon aries, taurus rising) - leo rules her 4th, and boy does this household revolve around her.  Of course alot has to do with her disability, but she definitely has that in your face sagittarius/aries thing going on, and she is the boss of us all.

Oh, and a big ((((((chamirose))))))........sorry to hear that, I am sure one day that will change for you!

Virgo husband tries to keep my Aries moon/Sag cusp/Scorp sun & rising tied down to the practical side of life. 

Egads but if it's not deflating and exasperating at times.  Very helpful at others.  He often waits for me when I've no desire for any one to be sticking around.  Go already! 

This parade needs no rain, no umbrella, just time to dance & kick up my heels in the rain and then later to enjoy the crackle of the dark storm as it electrifies my soul and imagination.

I'll be home and practical - laaaaaaaaaaater.

This Cap sun, Leo Rising is the military in this house and everyone is tired of it....I can tell.  I had everyone out in the yard working yesterday (mowing, bagging leaves, weeding).  I was inside doing laundry.

On the upside, I live with 2 Sag Sun, Sag Risings and they are so easy and there has got to be some sports game going on at all times, whether its hockey, football, basketball.  that means a TV is on where they can hear it, if not watching it or if nothing on, they are outside playing basketball or tossing a football.  My daughter is the Virgo Sun, Aries Rising....so she is off to work everytime I look around.  she flys into the house with dirty dishes from her loft upstairs and never has time to sit and talk....she is too busy and in a hurry to get to work!

But when we are all together, father being a Virgo Sun, Scorpio Rising (like at Thanksgiving), the three of us earth signs get very talkative, which gets progressively louder and louder and we try to outtalk the other one.  Some would say we are arguing, but if you look over at the 2 Sags, they are just sitting there laughing at the rest of us.

Last little bit that I find funny....the Virgos customarily will tell the Sags it is their time to clean the kitchen and so they get up to do it, but the Virgos watch on and get all uptight and start to point out how they are not doing it right and how it should be done and then they end up doing it anyway.....this to me is very funny and I love to watch this interaction! 

Oh yes, I remember WELL the Virgo instructions on how I was not wiping down the kitchen counters correctly when we first got married. 

"See, first you must wring the rag almost 97% dry before you wipe in concentric circles in left to right rows until all is consistently CLEAN, Dreams, otherwise you are leaving germs behind that could kill us all."

"Oh, BITE ME! - if you want to do all that?  Be my guest, otherwise totter off, before I take off your head in one sweet morsel of tastiness!

HAHA denamaria and dreamareality.  I used to live with a Virgo Mars guy.  He was a hardass.  He used to nag me about sweeping all the time.  One time I was sweeping the floor just to make him happy and he had the audacity to tell me I was doing it wrong.  So I broke the broom over my knee and threw it on the floor (Leo Mars here) and screamed "Well I better fucking stop sweeping then if I can't do it right!"  Hmmmn, wonder why that relationship didn't work out.

The guy I live with now is a Sag with Virgo moon.  I like the Virgo moon much better than the mars.  Its softer.  Hes a math teacher.  The effect this has on me is I am now very careful to use precise language when talking about anything math related.  If I slip up I get a droning repetitive lecture on why that doesn't make sense.

Hahahah about the virgo thing. My guy has virgo rising and want to give criticism about chores he doesn't even do,lol. I am like whatever go away, get the hell outta here,hahah.

lol at the virgo examples.

I'm living with my libra parents. It's alright because there is harmony most days. mom has leo and scorpio though and although she's learning more about boundaries has been ignoring them recently with mars in leo. I do appreciate her artistic eye most days though. Dad has moon in aquarius and just wants me not to be at home all the time :P

I also have 2 libra cats and one aries cat. Love the aries cat. She's a breath of fresh air. Attacks my toes though when she gets jealous that i'm not paying attention. Ouch!

I've been learning about coordinating with my libra parents. Seems to help better. Downside is they are partnering together, and still in parent mode, so there isn't much for me to do here. Makes me want my own household.. and my own partner.  Motivation to move out asap.

I'm just gonna....abstain and walk away....*giggle*

I live alone with my 2 year old Pisces cat. He's my Prozac.

i live with a Scorpio who is ironically an xray technician, and I call him the reluctant hero.

I always feel safe and loved. 

The person I live with taught me how to RECEIVE love which was something I needed to learn. He always, always, always makes me feel safe, cared for, considered, listened to, respected, and appreciated - all things that were semi-foreign to me before knowing him.

He's about to move out and I'm a sinking ship, springing leaks everywhere. I really think I might go insane.

(((bananas)))

I live with a quadruple Aries (Moon, Jupiter, Mercury, Sun, in this order) with Virgo rising (within two degrees orb from my own Ascendant). He is, first and foremost, a formidable negotiator. But we still do have conscription up here, and he used to be the best shooter in his squadron (he went to Navy). So, I do feel protected.

I live with my husband of 32 years.  He is Cancer w/Capricorn Moon, Venus in Virgo and Mars in Sagittarius.  He is a bigger workaholic than I am (and that's going some).  He is a rock and gives me what I need most:  stability.  He is a nitpicking pain in the ass.  He is the finest person I know.

An aside:  I live alone, but I'm a ... so I'm pretty good company!   

As long as the neighbors don't hear me talking to myself, I'll be fine.

(((Toni))) and ((((Bananas)))!

I just wanted to add that my son (Virgo moon/Virgo rising) said out of the blue last night, "I'm not a perfect Augie.  I don't think I'm very perfect." How Virgo is that????  So cute.

my super water leo six year old boy.

and thank goodness.  he's a blessing.

every day i'm away from the people i used to live with the better i feel about myself and my ability to actually _do something_.

Well the Xmas tree is up, Gemini Sun/Moon roomie bought it. 

IT'S PINK!

I saw it and said, "of course!" ha ha ha 

Just got to log on after the 'puter being down for a while.

I live with two Caps, a Sag, a Scorp, a Virgo (cat) and a Cancer (cat).  It's always chaotic around here. 

Opal, i love what you wrote!