Which signs are most attracted to you?

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    1.
    downtomars

    I always wondered why Capricorns were always attracted to me, and actually aggressively pursue me, a Leo with an Aquarius rising. Then I read Linda Goodman's Love Signs and it said that Capricorns are attracted to Leos because Leos represent the 8th house and sexual mystery to Caps. I think it may also have something to do with Saturn in the 7th.

    Scorpios are attracted to me as well but it always turns from love to hate in no time, and when I say no time I mean from the first date to the second date! I think that might be due to Pluto in the 8th.

    Other Leos are an instant, mutual attraction and instant burn out. I have yet to get involved with the men I am supposed to be compatible with (Aries, Sag, Libra), what is it like for you?

     
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    kashmiri

    I think you're right about your Saturn/7th drawing Capricorn. 

    I'm not sure about who is the most attracted to me, but the men who have let it be known aggressively and loudly have had Scorpio/Leo. Leo with a Scorpio Moon. There's never any staying power there.

    I've been in love with a few (few!) Aquarians and found the relationship demoralizing. Something isn't working there...most likely because of my 8th House Saturn Leo. An Aquarian might feel stifled with that. I have great friendships with them, though-lovers, no.

    My two ~serious~ boyfriends have both been Capricorns. Both have had significant Scorpio and Sagittarius. I find it quite easy and fun to rile Capricorn up, must be because my Moon is in Cap.

    I have only encountered one Cancer-that was a disaster. Geminis, I love them but never know where they are coming from. Fun to flirt with though. Virgo I never had much luck with either. They didn't take me seriously at all and underestimated me in a zillion ways. No Aries, either, though I had the opportunity to date my best friend's Aries brother, I just thought 'why bother' of course his feelings weren't hurt at all. I see him all the time at family functions with his wife and babies and I'm like "whew I dodged a bullet" ha ha ha...I'm a bit too free-wheeling for that responsibility. I've never dated a Pisces. I probably scare them, bless 'em. Can't remember who I'm forgetting. Dating is fun.

     
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    kashmiri

    Sorry by 'staying power' with Leo/Scorpio I don't mean 'sexual staying power' as I know that that combo might indicate the opposite. I mean it in an interest sense: they like me and I like them and then it's all too business-like for them (Scorpio Midheaven/Saturn Leo) and they get bored of me or something. There's one guy that I've seen socially for years and half the time he ignores me and half the time he acts like he's forgotten I'm essentially married. I've known him for 13 years, so I'm completely comfortable with the dynamic. You get used to people's approach to the world after a while, right?

     
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    LisLioness

    I'm a Leo with Aries rising who's married to a Cap.

    Why?  While the Suns are "traditionally" not compatible, there are other factors.

    1) His Moon and my Sun are conjunct at 15 Leo.

    2) A Sun trine Venus double whammy.  (Cap Sun/Virgo Venus; Leo Sun/Sag Venus)

    3) His Venus is trine my Mars.

    4) My Venus and his Uranus--instant attraction--are conjunct at 29 Virgo.

    There's other, "good", stabilizing aspects in the synastry, and not-so-good aspects as well, but all the interactions I listed bode well for a romance.

    Taureans were the most attracted to me, followed by Scorpios and Aquarians.  I have a Venus/Uranus/Pluto conjunction, and Venus rules the 7th house.

    Least attracted?  Mutable signs and Cancers.  I'm mostly Fixed and Cardinal, and I'm not very sensitive...I've been told that I'm as subtle as a sledgehammer.   

     
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    kashmiri

    hey lis, my saturn in Leo is at 15 degrees!

     
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    Lexie

    Scorpios are the ones that come around the most and are the most clear.  Libras come and go every so often.  That's most of my dating history right there.

     
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    flip58

    Taurus love me. I am a pisces sun ,virgo moon, cancer rising.

     
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    dolce

    Leos love me for some reason, I don't really know why!  :)

     
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    Lorielle

    I've married two Cancer men. I think it's because I have cancer on the cusp of my 5th house and my Mars is in Cancer. One interesting thing I just noticed recently is that I apparently like men who have a Sagittarius or a Leo moon or their moon has progressed to that position. My Moon is in Leo. My first husband was a Cancer. He had a Taurus Moon but it had progressed to Sag. My 2nd husband was a Cancer with a Sag Moon. I dated a man for awhile about a year ago, he has a Sag Moon and it's progressed to Leo - he's a Leo Sun, too. I love Leo men. :) I'm dating a man right now who is a Sag Moon also. I have no idea why the Sag. Moon men catch me off guard. I have Aquarius rising, Leo on the 7th house cusp. Sag on the MC. Venus in Aries. But I'm a Pisces.

     
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    Togi

    I've only had romantic relationships with other earth moons but I've had some progressions lately and I think that is playing out in my attractions. Sun from Virgo to Scorpio, Ascendent from Scorpio to Sag, moon from Capricorn to Cancer, Venus from Leo to Virgo. Saturn has hit my sun hard and my midlife transits have punched me down. Men are nowhere to be found right now. Kind of disconcerting but I figure it's  my time in solitary to figure out some things. I miss having male energy in my day-to-day life.

     
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    retains_water

    I'm an Aquarius who has attracted Cancers. The first one left me feeling very hurt, the second one I ignored (which wasn't very nice), and my last relationship lasted four years. He was a sun Aquarius w/Cancer moon. My Dad, sister, and best friend are Cancers. I've had the freedom-possession struggle with ALL of the above people.

    I recently learned my moon is in Scorpio and my Venus is in Pisces. Perhaps these two water signs are the reasons for all of the Cancer activity.

     
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    luci

    I don't know how to answer this one. I've dated a Sagittarius, a Cancer and a Gemini. My closest best friend in the world was a Cancer. My step-sister and I were inseparable growing up, and she was a Sagittarius.

    I don't know, it's more incidental than "I seem to attract these people". 

     

     
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    almamoon

    Three Aquarius, two Libra, and Scorpio with an Aquarius Rising. I'm a Cancer and I seem to attract quite a few air signs. My good childhood friends are a Leo and a Gemini. I rarely attract water signs.

     
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    notatirem

    I've got tons of Libra and Scorpio in my chart and I've run the gamut as far a men are concerned, well almost, theres one exception, Virgo men. I always think Virgo men are crazy good looking, but everytime I find one I like, we just play the game differently and it never turns into anything. I've never had a Virgo man pursue me either.

    Now heres the funny part.  Virgo women want me.  I'm not really into ladies, but I also don't put out any kind of vibe that says I'm not.  I come across as an equal opportunity employer thanks to all that Libra.  So maybe like every couple of months a woman will approach me and ask me out.  More often than not, shes a Virgo.  I think they're sexually attracted to my 12th house mars.

     

     
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    Cappychica

    I absolutely am crazy over Pisces men. & we have the strangest attraction to one another. I'm so very Capricorn. The chemistry and auras we get from another are amazing. I make many Pisces men too shy to talk to me regardless of how attracted he is to me. They'll love me forever, but let me go simply because I'm a bit domineering. I don't know what it is. I find them so adorable. And they always find me to be adorable or cute. Then, when it comes down to it, sexually, we have a huge spark. He will touch me and kiss me in the right places and I don't even need to say a word. Almost as if he's psychic.  They are always my quietest lovers. When they do what they do in the bedroom, it's so spiritual and physical. The only audible things you hear is kissing, sucking and moans.

    Every experience with them are memorable. The way he may look at me, smile, and his touch is a very memorable thing. Pisces is the best lover I've ever had.

     

    Virgo men love me. I hate them. Maybe it's because I have a good amount of Virgo's opposite sign, Pisces in my chart. I hated the sex I have had with my Virgo partners. They did too much talking, and not enough loving. I was never really that attracted to them.

     

    Tauruses are so hot! I have a serious attraction to them too! They are some sexy beasts! Them and Pisces share the number one spot in my book when it comes down to attraction. They can beat out Pisces. A Taurus man was the freakiest partner I ever had. From the moment our eyes met, we were completely attracted to one another. They are always so very good looking to me.

     

     

     
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    Lunalie

    Aries men are usually men I've always found attractive, but for some reason, I get annoyed of them. I can't explain why, but second dates never happen with them - not because they are appalling at all though! I think something in me just doesn't click. Too common with them as I am an Aries as well? 

    Taurus men... Bleh. They do make good friends.

    Gemini men are interesting yet I cannot seem to be sexually attracted to one.

    Cancer men - I've fallen for one of them before and I think I fall the hardest for these guys. Must be my Cancer moon. (and it's very well aspected except for the Pluto squaring it).

    Leo men, I always found attractive but nothing ever happens. However, I do find that there are a lot of people (men and women) in my life who have Leo moons, including my signficant other.

    Virgo men... Let's not even start. Yuck! They do make very good friends though :) My first real long term relationship was with a man with a Virgo moon. He seemed somewhat emotionally dead until I broke up with him and he had a strong display of emotion. WTF?

    I've dated a few Libra men and I find them great though the relationship seems to stay in a superficial level, which eventually I find unfulfilling. I had to break up with a Libra man once because of this.

    Scorpio men are the ones I had the most mature relationship with. I am dating one right now.

     Sagittarius men - I never had a sexual attraction to them, but as with Gemini - they make good friends. My brother is a Sag.

    Capricorn - I am not touching that with a ten foot pole. Dad is also capricorn and I think the negative traits of capricorn irk me to no end. 

    Aquarius men... Nice to be friends with, but I was dating one for 2.5 years and he really felt like he had no emotions (See my Virgo reference as he had a Virgo moon).

    Pisces men were my addiction from back when I was younger. I get deathly attracted to these guys and sometimes too obsessed. It took me six years to get over one.  

     
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    jenfullmoon

    Hm, I can't say I've repeated dating anyone in particular signs (though let's face it, those I dated once I never bothered to find out birthdays for). I would imagine that Scorps and Aquas would go for me more than anyone else though. Aquas aren't remotely picky and Scorpios love me.

     
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    Francetta

    In the beginning it was Taurus Suns which didn't pan out very well. These days they usually end up having *something* in Libra, many times Venus; or else Venus is in an air sign. 

    For people in general, Cancer Moons seem to like me lately.  

    I just found out the other day that the little girl I babysit currently has Aquarius/Uranus rising with a Cappy moon, which is the inverse of me

     
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    Crackers

    Scorpios, I'd say.

     
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    thisonecoolgirl

    I'm a Pisces Sun, and I've never NOT hit it off with a Scorpio man.  I adore Cancer men, but the feeling is not mutual...could be my Venus in Aries. 

     
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    Luna Mile

    Just about every SO I've ever had has had a Sagittarius Sun, Moon or Ascendant. Sagittarius is my Desc (conjunct my Neptune- lovely!), so it's easy to see why. However, as far as attraction goes, I always seem to be hopelessly infactuated with men who have lots of strong Virgo. I have a total lack of Virgo in my chart (some 6th house, but no direct Virgo by sign), and by sign it's inconjunct my Sun and opposite my Venus, so I'm not sure where this adoration comes from. I know it's a kind of polarizing topic, but how do you all feel about asteroid astrology? My Psyche ("soul"), hangs out all alone in my Virgo ruled 4th house, which might go a ways in explaining my deep Virgo-love.

     
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    hrae

    Aries: yuck. I know I am one, but yuck as far as men have gone.

    Taurus: very stable, very boring...can't do it, maybe 10 years from now

    Gem: same as Lunalie, fun, but nothing more exciting

    Cancer: disasterpiece.

    Leo: excellent chemistry, but all the males (and females) i've known have been in super long, controlling relationships...belch.

    Virgo: attraction that never goes anywhere. I'm too impatient, probably!

    Libra: best friends!!!heartheartheart

    Scorpio: oh man. I never want to feel that sting again. My whole body shuddered and I was so scared. I respect scorps and admire their power, but, boy, I don't know how to handle them. 

    Sagittarius: My longest "official" relationships, instant attraction. but it fizzles after a year or so...:/

    Capricorn: is it ironic if i say "SPICY"? hahaha, I have 4 cap planets, and I think I'm on the same plane as Kashmiri, I can rile them up

    Aquarius: sigh. I find them dreamy, but elusive. I really hope its just the Neptune in Aquarius the past few years that's made it so difficult to relate. 

    Pisces: Most provocative relationships, loved pushing my buttons. I think they had Aries influences, so knowing how I operate and knowing how to manipulate, they didnt hold back. I have learned the most about myself from them, though

     

     

     
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    rox

    I have a total facsincation with air sign men - being a gemini it is about communicaton

    I had only one relationship with a taurus and he was so stuck.

    I am currently married to a Libra and he knows how to have a relationship

    cannot handle scorpio's ( I have respect for crackers since she draws them) or virgos but  I live with my libra husbands 19 year old twin Virgo sons they have  scorpio rising, and my boss is a virgo.

    The twins are beautiful - look perfect - like an abercrombe and fitch advertisement.  Perfect faces and bodies - beautiful green eyes and they are very tall. They are always half dressed like the ads too.  But everyday with them is completely different and you don't know what you will come home to.  With venus in libra in the 11th they house is always full of their friends.  Not unusual to come home to 15 people or get up to that since they are also nocturnal.

    So I draw Virgos but it is probably because of unfinished virgo father business

     

     
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    PiscesKitty

    The majority of the men that come my way are Sagittarius'. My very first boyfriend was a sag/w aq. Moon. I'm a pisces with a Gemini moon, Libra Rising, and Venu-mercury also in pisces. My daughter's father is also a sagittarius with his moon in Gemini. I tend to attract fire sign men the most. My ex-husband was a Taurus with his moon in Libra.

     
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    balletlover70

    Hmm, interesting topic imho! lol. Uh, let's see, you mean you want me to think back to all the men have been with? lol! Yes, have been very  promiscuous before and after my marriage ended ( & it's not really working anymore by the way) Men (the gamet) with Sagitarius moon, Sun Scorpios, Sun Capricorns (Saturn is most aspected planet but not sure if that has anything to do w/ it!), Libra (Moon & Uranus conjunct 5" Libra), pretty much in a nutshell.

     
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    goddess

    i didn't realize it until i reflected on this thread, but my first boyfrined and the first guy i moved in with were both cancers. another major relationship was a capricorn, but I don't know about his other placements. he was also crazy (and not in the fun way).

    my husband, while not cancer, has mars and venus in cancer. so i guess i must draw cancer! i don't know why. i don't really have cancer and my moon is kind of afflicted, for that matter. it squares saturn in 7th house pisces, so manybe that makes them project "earth mother" or something onto me?

     
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    dina2

    Jesus God! I was going to say something but I just read CappyChica's post and now I don't remember what it was.

     
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    neva

    Hahaha, hrae, "disasterpiece." I'm totally stealing that and using it in several sentences today, says the Cancer!

    Aquarians love me, my busy brain and flapping tongue, but never actually want to get down to business, if you know what I'm saying. No. More. AQUARIANS. *crosses self* 

     
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    Bretagne

    The Neptunian Energy LOVES, LOVES, LOVES ME! Every close friend either has loads of Planets in the 12th house, has Strong Neptune in their chart, or is a Pisces or strong Pisces influences. ALWAYS!

    This has to do with my Venus conjunct Neptune (2nd house) and maybe my Pluto in the 12th house. I guess I have this understanding for the nebulous energy that usually irratates and/or confuses most people.

     
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    Zara

    i have a history with stalker type boyfriends. they all had strong scorpio or aries elements in them. maybe i give off strange vibes. i could never figure it out

     
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    fucsia

    Scorpios, Taurus and Aries - and works the same for me.  I am Cancer sun, libra moon and aries rising, plus a pluto in the seventh opposition ascendant.

     

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