Have at it! :)

4 Virgo - Let them know you appreciate their help. :)

Gemini ~ Listen

People tell me what I think and feel instead of listening to what I'm telling them I think and feel. Very frustrating, especially when it's a doctor.

Hmmm. What's the best thing you can do to a Cancer...

I don't know! Give them a hug, I guess. Whatever nice thing is done, it's very important that it be genuine, because they will know if it's not.

Libra: Share your brownie.  "Yes, I would like a bite of that."

(works on Taurus too.)

Capricorn - jump in and do your share of work, without asking, or complaining. 

Give a Pisces a big hug and tell them how much you like the person they are on the inside.

Aries- tell them you're not offended (and mean it)

Taurus-tell them it's okay they have it (and mean it)

Gemini-tell them that was funny (and mean it)

Cancer-tell them you understood (and mean it)

Leo-tell them you like them for who they are (and mean it)

Virgo-tell them you appreciate it (and mean it)

Libra-tell them you DO need their help, thanks for offering (and mean it)

Scorpio-tell them you noticed them too (and mean it)

Sagittarius-tell them you'd love to come along for the ride (and mean it)

Capricorn-tell them their effort has been noticed and appreciated (and mean it)

Aquarius-tell them you're not offended at all-you learned something (and mean it)

Pisces-tell them you love them (and mean it) 

For me personally as a Sagittarius, just leave your past and your mistakes behind and not make a big deal out of it and give me a good conversation.

You don't need to put on a facade for me or kiss my ass. Just talk to me normally and if you don't want to talk about something then we won't.

Cancer sun/virgo moon/leo venus: love and lunch!

Oh, this thread is golden!

*furiously scribbles notes down from kashmiri*

C'mon people, saturn is in libra let's get on this!  Lemme try:

Aries--give them a new project to spearhead

Taurus--buy them something nice and thoughtful

Gemini--indulge them in gossip

Cancer--have a heart to heart with them over a nice bowl of creamy tomato soup

Leo--let them (and everyone else in the room) know they look fab-u-lous!

Virgo--ask them if it sounds about right

Libra--ask them for a second opinion, and incorporate it

Scorpio--let them drive

Capricorn--promote them to meaningful and manageable responsibility

Aquarius--be engaging without taking them personally

Pisces--encourage their current pursuits

...any of these look off to you guys/gals?  not just asking the virgos ;-)

Aries - Let them THINK they are in control.  Forgive them when they slip up (or offend you) but draw the line somewhere or they'll never grow and are prone to do it again and again.

 Taurus - Chocolate, or something sweet.  If they are on a diet introduce them to chocolate flavored liquid nutrition and diet snacks. 

Gemini - Don't tell them that half the stuff they talk about doesn't interest you and that you aren't interested in gossip.  Just listen, even if you don't absorb a single word.  Laugh... they say some funny sh*t some where in there. 

Cancer - Follow their good example.  Imitation is flattery.

Leo - Dote on them. 

Virgo - Give back.  Genuinely show appreciation but also serve the server in return.  Reciprocity! 

Libra - Don't expect their justice to be blind when issued.  Don't ask them to be exclusive or restrict them socially.

Scorpio - Allow them their rise from the ashes.

Sag - Don't crush the wanderlust. 

Capricorn - Like Dorothy said "Do your share of the work" or just do what you SAY you will do.  Nothing makes them happier. 

Aquarius - Don't make it personal  

Eleven: "Don't crush the wanderlust" 

that made me cry. the saggie in me gets sad when i think about silly things like "when will i be able to go again?"

Which makes me think this about Sagittarius: We like the stories people tell from their adventures almost as much as the adventure itself. (I have Sag Rising) 

For a cancer sun and an aquarius rising- show them you have a wonderful heart (cancer) and an open and brilliant mind (aquarius) :)

I don't like people saying that the best thing you can do for a Gemini is to indulge them in gossip. That's the shadow side of Gemini. As a Gemini, I would say the best thing you can do for me is to talk to me about something that's intellectually stimulating. AKA not gossip. Let's talk about a book or a movie or analyze something worth analyzing. Not just who had sex with who when they got too drunk last Friday night.

Tam,

I know what you mean about having people telling you what you think and feel. I've gotten really frustrated about that in the past. I don't know what your experience has been, but I think I got frustrated because it was hitting a nerve re: something that I was in denial about. I've talked about in another thread about how I feel I only understand my emotions on an intellectual level - only through ideas and logical processes. However, converting emotions into ideas/logic does not always work. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that people have noticed emotions that I have felt that I did not know I possessed until they were pointed out by somebody else (AKA a Scorpio, hehe). Very thankful for it, too!

Mmmm tomato soup, my favourite :-)

Just don't try to get me to listen to your problems while I'm still waiting for my food. First things first :-)

libra - be appreciative of the things they do for you; appreciate their presence in your life; don't fight with them and be fair when you do! share things with them (feelings, thoughts, food etc), share, not give.

sag - bring them places they never been to before, or let them live vicariously through your own (well told) stories of adventure; tlk to them about your own philosophical musings in daily life; joke around with them and not get easily offended

scorpio - communicate with them without words; let them feel like they are the only ones who knows you, key word is exclusive 

pisces - love them and show it in a romantic way; sweet talk to them; make them see and experience beauty/romance in their mind's eye; let them sacrifice something for you when they really want to and don't feel sorry about it

aries - fight with them and let them win (you really have to put up a good fight though!); notice things they do that are different from others and let them know you have noticed them; differentiate them from everyone else

gemini - listen, listen, listen to them, REALLY listen to what they say because that's the only way you'll be able to contribute to the conversation, and they love that

virgo - consult them and ask for their help (something they have expertise in); don't humiliate them; don't force attention onto them

leo - be open hearted and don't judge them; be sincere with them; let them have all the attention

aquarius - tell them they are weird/unique/different (and why)

luci, kash, lotion--all pisces wants is love...(unconditional, universal, expanding) So funny you all said basically the same thing (with variations).

For the Scorpio, allow them to be them, because so often in front of others they are someone else (or a beefed up version of themselves). That's what my Scorpio loves anyway...

For the Tauruses, show your weakness or vulnerablity, they want to help you build strength. All of the Taurus women I know are more often than not trying to help build me up, without letting me think I am even in the slightest bit weak. They are amazing creatures.

In my opinion.... 

Admire an Aries (through actions, not words vs. Leo- state your praise) - follow their lead, and catch their enthusiasm.  

Seek advice for a problem (no emotional) from a Capricorn and respect their opinion, and be grateful for the valuable time they took to give you that advice. 

Inquire about the creative genius that is an Aquarius.  Ask them for ideas and be dazzled by them. Appreciate uniqueness. 

Create a more peaceful landscape or environment for a Libra. Allow them to talk, and never disagree. If what they say lacks humility, dont be startled, just reinforce them with more compliments.

for the earth signs: tell them that you appreciate/admire their hard work.  Ask them to help you on a project or offer to help them on one also.  Many earth signs feel as if they labor alone and no one sees the hard hard effort that goes into the things they do.  (maybe that is just my earth screaming out under pressure but I see it in the MANY earth sign friends I have)

for Leos: laugh at their jokes and pet them if you're close enough (they're really just big cats that purrr when loved)  I swear my mom is a Leo rising and she just glows if I brush her hair for her or massage her shoulders. I mean that quite literally about petting - not ego but physical.  But ONLY if you are close enough relationship-wise to do so appropriately.

for Gemini: yeah, skip the gossip.  Go with politics, science, new tech, inventions, interesting stories and stuff happening in the world.  I'd say this is pretty much the same for my aquarian friends too.  They're way more interested in the stuff that is happening that is new and different.

for Pisces: thank them for their love

Alicia - saying:

"For the Tauruses, show your weakness or vulnerablity, they want to help you build strength. All of the Taurus women I know are more often than not trying to help build me up, without letting me think I am even in the slightest bit weak. They are amazing creatures."

That's like saying that a seed is weak.  That's just not true.  A seed is a very very strong thing.  It has it's vulnerabilities during parts of it's growth until it's a strong plant/tree/bush that can withstand wind, rain, snow until it grows old and dies but the potential and the strength is there IN THE SEED. It's one of the strongest things out there.  Maybe your taurus friends just see you as a seed or as going through the transplanting stage (a tough time for young seedling).  :)

mudlike--what's you're sign? ;)

ps, are you saying that showing weakness is showing potential (aka the seed)?

speaking of my taurus ladies--they are some of the strongest women I know (even if they don't know it) and they jump at any opportunity to express this energy and how I (or others) might be able to manipulate it and create/cultivate my own strength. 

Cancer: if they have an issue and feel at sea, don't just advise them on it, be a port in the storm, a place they can take comfort in.  I guess I mean mother them a little bit haha.  Hums "what do I care how much it ma storm, I've got my love to keep me warm."

I appreciate that a lot. 

As a Pisces--don't tell me you love me-show me by rubbing my feet. And tell me a good story while you're doing it.