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Which aspects are the sexiest?
posted 2 months ago in Love, Sex and Relationships
mars-pluto (I just don't understand how that's sexy,
Are you serious? !! Mars = sex, Pluto = nuclear fission
I go into meltdown just standing near a man with Mars/Pluto, it's one of the sexiest placements there is IMO ![]()
I have both my sun and my uranus conjunct my venus.....how does that add to sex appeal?
Oh - they are all in saggitarius...a very clumsy sign...definitley NOT the sexiest sign. haha
Sagitarius not sexy? Sure they can be clumsy, but they can be fun and adventurous, which can definately be sexy. Besides, they really know how to pursue things. Not smooth, but not stuffy, either.
Sun and Venus- I assume you're confident being sexy?
WhosThatLady, funny that you should have mentioned this, because I was just going to write that aspects aside I have a thing for Sagittariuses, guys in my case. Well, all fire signs really, possibly because I have so little fire on my own chart (Saturn in Leo and Neptune in Sagittarius) and they complete me. But in those cases I've felt pure and immediate lust for someone, that someone has usually (I'd say in 80 % of cases) a very strong Sagittarius.
It's actually quite strange synastry wise - and I think that what I find sexy would be very much a question of synastry -, since I'm an early Libra Sun, a late Libra Mars, Scorpio Venus and Capricorn Moon. There's of course the Sun sign sextile, but in most cases there hasn't been all that Venus/Mars synastry that would be, in theory, possible between a Sag (they could have Venus on my Mars, and Mars on my Venus).
WhosThatLady, funny that you should have mentioned this, because I was just going to write that aspects aside I have a thing for Sagittariuses, guys in my case. Well, all fire signs really, possibly because I have so little fire on my own chart (Saturn in Leo and Neptune in Sagittarius) and they complete me. But in those cases I've felt pure and immediate lust for someone, that someone has usually (I'd say in 80 % of cases) a very strong Sagittarius.
It's actually quite strange synastry wise - and I think that what I find sexy would be very much a question of synastry -, since I'm an early Libra Sun, a late Libra Mars, Scorpio Venus and Capricorn Moon. There's of course the Sun sign sextile, but in most cases there hasn't been all that Venus/Mars synastry that would be, in theory, possible between a Sag (they could have Venus on my Mars, and Mars on my Venus).
wow wowoo Candela.....my ex was a Libra Sun, Scorpio Venus AND Virgo moon...and I must say it was the MOST intensely sexual/lust/fun driven relationship I've ever had. Hot to the point where I cannot even fathom topping it. I have 5 planets in sag and I guess he was lacking in the fire realm because it was certainly "Lust" at first sight. :(
As for my own aspects..oh boy..I know I'm attractive/sexy to many men and I take confidence in that, but my can it be lonely. That's all I have to say.
Opal:,
Are you serious? !! Mars = sex, Pluto = nuclear fission
I go into meltdown just standing near a man with Mars/Pluto, it's one of the sexiest placements there is IMO ![]()
I don't know, maybe it's sexy in men, but not women? I have 7th house 
square 4th house 
-- neither of those houses or signs are sexy. More Fight Club than frisky (I'm not sure the mars-sun conjunction helps).
WhosthatLady & Candela
Sag
conjunct
&
= charm fused with unpredictability and freewheelingness. Also hardbodiedness. Then again I've got
(5th house) &
(6th house) there. I had a ridiculously intense relationship with a Sag (but also Scorpio moon; did not end well.)
Scorpio stelliums are hot but sometimes there's issues. Had a four hour liplock session with one and he got incredibly freaked out that I'd end up devirginizing him (which was funny because well I'd never so much as kissed anyone before then, LOL.)
I have a history of being very attracted to sun-venus guys and i usually find out they have this aspect after the fact of course...
I've always found mars-venus conjunct of both genders to be hot, as well as men with sun/venus and women with sun/mars. I think it has something to do with exuding both male/female characteristics for these natives. For similar reasons, I think Libras (a masculine sign ruled by feminine planet) and Scorpios (feminine sign co-ruled by masculine planet) to be sexy. But I also have Venus in Libra so I could just be doing the balancing dance!
I have Mars/Venus conjunct in Aries house 4 and I am clueless as to what this stands for, I wouldn't consider myself sexy to men at all, I repel them if anything. It's less potent also considering everyone born in the mid 80's has this conjunction in any given sign.
Sun/Venus conjunct brings cheerfulness from my experience of ppl with it. I totally agree that Sag, Scorp and Libra are the top 3 sexiest and that masculine planets in fem signs or any male/female combo can crackle with sexiness.
Leo rising is definately sexy in women, it gives them a masculine appeal. Geminis are also up there.
Hubby has Venus conjunct Jupiter - women love the hell out of him. Yes at times it has been a problem -
I have Venus conjunct Uranus. Before I got married, I had a lot of men literally just appear out of thin air, be completely obsessed with me, than disappear as fast as they showed up.
Dorothy, I've got a very tight Uranus/Venus conjunct (sextiling the Ascendant) on my chart too, and my experience has been pretty much like yours. Including an ex who told me he needed a break on Monday evening and went living with his mother on Wednesday morning. We only have seen each other three times since. But I've been the one vanishing too, with guys who were obviously so much more into me than I was into them I felt leading them on would have made things worse later.
sadge may be clumsy but i had a great time letting one plunder about in my nether regions...
Hahahah Bananas! Yes we are quite the heady type of folk, not simply cerebral...ha
...there is a reason why sags are protrayed as half animal half man.
For aspects I guess the ones you mentioned are sexy. Like Mars/Pluto and Venus/Uranus.
I thought Aquarians are sexy: aloof, intelligent, tall, beautiful, clear eyed, cf Paul Newman. Who is so beautiful he hurts my eyes. As though they're looking past you. Now I don't know. I find them annoying. Also Pisceans are dreamy and frequently very attractive in a similar way cf Kurt Cobain
I've had non sexy experiences with Scorpio. A Scorpio nerd is a very greasy nerd, very narrowly focused. Scorpios that have invaded my mental space in a bad way were trying to be manipulative and that was a very uncomfortable experience.
Apparently Jared Leto is well hung. That was just a random note.
Jared Leto is a Capricorn - another of those signs that have the dual masculine/feminine dynamics (Saturn is male but Capricorn is a feminine sign).
But every sign can be sexy, albeit for different reasons for different people.
Sagittarius, like other fire signs, are sexy to me for their childlike enthusiasm. Sometimes they are clumsy, but they come at you with full force & warmth! Fire signs make me laugh like no other!Water signs because they are so deep, penetrating & transforming. earth signs (with the exception of virgo) because they are so cozy, grounding & secure. Air signs because they are so sophisticated & fashionable. And finally,virgos are just so unassumingly delicate that they are sexy. Virgos to me are like that Fiona Apple (who incidentally is a Virgo) song, where she sings about how she's going to crawl into your skin before you know it.
mmm interesting i liiike :)
i got sun- venus & mars-sun & leo rising i think im pretty attractive but the funny thing is that im the only one thinking this ;) i dunno how & why but guys rarly aproach its weird !!
I like Virgos but that's probably because I have three planets in capricorn. Virgo rising, otoh, I've not had good experiences with. Stories I could tell are not good.
Leili, some of those guys are intimidated. You don't want them. I'm sure you'll get lots of Aries and Sagittarians headed your way.
I thought Aquarians are sexy: aloof, intelligent, tall, beautiful, clear eyed, cf Paul Newman. Who is so beautiful he hurts my eyes.
I too am in love (and I really mean lust) with every young P. Newman movie character. I haven't yet met an Aquarius male in person who was swoon-worthy though. Quite the opposite. But, maybe one day.
I have Sun/Venus/Jup/Merc in Aquarius & Mars/Pluto in Scorpio, which may or may not be sexy, in and of itself. Not quite sure. I very rarely have trouble getting laid, but I think I owe it to my Aqua planets being in the 5th house. Nobody really wants to lay a snow-woman. As it is I've been called 'cold as ice' to my face (but I'm not, I swear!).
My vote is for the Libras. I can't keep my eyes/hands off of them.
my ex had mars/pluto/sun conjunction in scorpio & wheneva i see him in a shirt i get kinda hot....the only guy who makes me wet like anything(still a virgin)is my current bf....he has venus sextile mars,quincunx uranus...piscean rising,virgo sun,cancer moon....& i see him as yummy....i've my natal sun conj venus & mars(saggie) semi-sextiling uranus...aquarius rising...
You know, Sagittarians are kind of sexy, fun, and fiery for their playfulness and spontaneity. When they are not spouting their annoying philosophy bullshit (sorry, Saturn in Sagittarius speaking). I could use a change from being surrounded by Suns conjunct my Moon in Cancer. Marlon Brando could melt steel, he's got Sagittarius on the Ascendant. He does have several Pluto aspects.
James Dean is another Aquarian that is like a tall, idealistic drink of water to me. His middle name is Byron! Another hot Aquarius. Also with a Sagittarius Ascendant.
Gregory Peck in Roman Holiday is an example of the restrained, intense, quiet pining, manly love of a Capricorn or Scorpio man to me, the way his eyes shine when he sees her (though he isn't actually a Scorpio). This is the kind of Scorpio energy that can often turn creepy and me wanting to throw it off in my experience.
"Marlon Brando could melt steel, he's got Sagittarius on the Ascendant. He does have several Pluto aspects. "
And a Moon square Mars aspect. The most Brandoesque guy (I could definitely see him shouting under someones window
) I've recently met has Scorpio Moon squaring Acquarius Mars (he also has Acquarius Venus). He definitely could be bad news to anyone getting involved with him, but I see people are willing to try...
we all agree dat scorps are one of the sexiest.....lets cheer with a mug of beer for dat
how can you resist someone whose sun conjuncts ur moon in cancer - its all so emo emo..u'll be babying each other the whole day...i so luv cancer right now....
@ DINA - thanx for all the lovely compliments!!>>>(blushes)so u basically mean dat people with saggie,aqua & scorpio energy are hot.....ahm ahm....
I agree with scorpio men being uber sexy! But, I personally find any guy with tight conjunctions to my own chart the sexiest. So here's some thoughts:
- Current guy has a venus/uranus conjunction in cancer tightly trining my venus in scorpio plus his pluto squares my venus - amazing chemisty!
- Previous guy had a mars in taurus directly opposing my venus in scorpio, best sex ever!
This old lady says what's sexy is all in the mind. One person's "hot" aspect completely turns someone else off.
I have Mars conjunct the Sun in Leo. Some guys found me a challenge. Others stayed far away because I was "too intense".
I also have Venus conjunct Uranus (widely and out-of-sign) and Pluto (close). Some guys were put off by the aloofness of Uranus. Others didn't want to get too close to Pluto.
As for me, my two most fondly remembered past relationships were with a Scorpio Moon with a Venus/Pluto conjunction; and a Venus/Mars conjunction in Gemini. I'm not into and didn't attract Pisces or Cancer or Neptune types. Clinging, codependent men aren't for me.
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= Hot lava!!
Or make their owners hot stuff?
I've heard venus-mars (any), sun conjunct venus. I've had major chemistry with guys who had venus-uranus, venus conjunct sun, mars-pluto (I just don't understand how that's sexy, but I have that one and well...).
Of course sun signs matter -- some people just aren't going to find Scorpio sexy. (I'm not one of them.)
I have a friend who had an exact Virgo mars-venus conjunction at the bottom of a T-square and she's a born saleswoman who never lacks for dates. She's a Scorpio with Leo rising -- naturally.